21/08/2025
If your child has received their GCSE results today, here is some useful advice on managing a disappointing outcome from YoungMinds:
1 If they are happy to show you their results statement, you might find it helpful to have a look, just in case they have misread or misunderstood, or overlooked something.
2 Accept their feelings, whatever they are – disappointment, anger, embarrassment, bravado. Their feelings are neither right nor wrong, they just are. Don’t offer immediate judgement, or solutions, or even reassurance – there will be plenty of time for conversations later.
3 Reflect back how they are feeling to show you have understood, for example, “I can see you’re disappointed with the Maths result.”
4 Let them know you love them through highs and lows. Big hugs are good (although may be embarrassing in public).
5 Show you’re on their side - it could be something small like getting their favourite snack.
6 Give yourself some breathing space and time to reflect.
7 Ask the school to help your child explore any possible next steps, such as re-takes, re-marking or alternative courses.
8 If your child is disappointed with their results, they might also be embarrassed. Agree with them how they want their results discussed with family and friends, if at all.
For more information on supporting your child this results day, visit: https://youngpeopleswellbeing.org/results-day-2025/
