Sexcess System

16/05/2026

Latest blog is now live.

This piece explores how s*xual shame and internal conditioning can quietly shape confidence, relationships, and how fully we show up in life. It looks at what changes when those barriers are finally recognised and released, and why this shift impacts so much more than intimacy alone.

Read here:
Unlocking Sexual Barriers For A Better Life

https://lorrainechapman.com/2026/05/16/unlocking-s*xual-barriers-for-a-better-life/

16/05/2026

People see one person.
One face. One name. One version of you.

But inside, there are so many parts.

The part that keeps going when things get hard.
The part that still carries old wounds quietly.
The playful part.
The exhausted part.
The nurturing part.
The fierce part that is finally learning to stop apologising for existing.

We are not one fixed thing. We are a collection of experiences, survival strategies, dreams, fears, courage and growth.

And maybe healing isn’t about becoming someone new.
Maybe it’s about letting every hidden part of you finally have a seat at the table.

Not shrinking them.
Not silencing them.
Not pretending they don’t exist just to make other people comfortable.

You can be soft and powerful.
Healing and messy.
Strong and still in progress.

You are one person.
But you carry many versions of yourself within you.
And every single one deserves compassion. 🔥

Which part of you is asking to be seen a little more right now?

Visit LorraineChapman.com to explore the parts of you that are ready to stop hiding and start living.

15/05/2026

13/05/2026

Recently, I delivered an empowerment workshop
“How To Break Through Limiting Beliefs”
for SATEDA - a charity doing vital work supporting individuals affected by domestic abuse, helping them rebuild safety, confidence and independence.

A huge thank you to Tracey Marsh for your support in bringing this together 🤍

And the feedback… honestly, it landed deeply:
“TC - As usual, Lorraine didn't disappoint with her talk. She has a natural way to make you feel empowered & worthwhile.
Many thanks Lorraine x”

“KD - I’ve seen Lorraine Chapman speak several times and she is consistently engaging, insightful and inspiring. She connects effortlessly with her audience. I highly recommend her. Lorraine never fails to get everyone laughing and amazed”

“AC - This was my first time seeing Lorraine Chapman and wow! Not only was she welcoming but she was so empowering. She is a lady who (in my personal opinion) you can look up to and strive to become.

I felt seen as a person, not part of the crowd. She help me realise what are my barriers and gave me the believe i can conquer them. She is so encouraging and made me feel free.I look forward to seeing her again”

“TM - What can I say, another fantastic session from Lorraine. She is supportive, empowering and just an all round amazing person to listen to. She has a talent for making everyone in the room feel understood, included and special and is the most encouraging person I have ever met. Lorraine makes you feel worthy and has a natural way about her that removes feelings of guilt and shame, all the while increasing self esteem and the feeling of belonging. If you get a chance to listen to Lorraine, you will not regret it.”

This is why I do this work.
Not just to talk.
Not just to inspire for an hour.
But to shift something real in the room.
To help people see themselves differently.

To loosen the grip of the stories that have kept them small.
Because when that happens… everything changes.

If you’re running events, supporting communities, or want to bring this kind of experience into your space -let’s talk.
Lorraine x

10/05/2026

Date for the Diary….. 🤗

Couples Intro To Ta**ra 😘
Sunday 4th October 2026 😋
2pm – 6.30pm 😃
Wateringbury, Kent 😍

Limited to 6 couples

Deepen intimacy, strengthen your bond, and awaken your true selves through transformative Ta**ra practices.

What others have said:

“We firstly had a really great afternoon, felt comfortable and welcomed. Lorraine, you held the space beautifully! We really want to say thank you because your introduction to ta**ra allowed us to have moments we just don't get usually and it highlighted this as a couple so now we understand how much we need it and can apply it with love. The information on consent and boundaries was so important and again something we might not think about often when you've been with someone for a long time, but it was delivered just right in a non shaming way. Thank you so much for a great workshop”Helen & Rob”🙏

“We wasn’t sure what to expect, but I’m so glad we came. It felt relaxed, real, and genuinely eye-opening. Lorraine has a way of making topics that could feel uncomfortable actually feel normal and easy to explore. We came away feeling more connected and with simple things we can actually use in everyday life” Mark and Emma ❤️

“Such a refreshing experience. No pressure, no awkwardness, just a really well-held space to slow down and reconnect. Lorraine explains things in a way that just lands without overcomplicating it. We both left feeling calmer, closer, and more aware of what we need as a couple” Pete and Sara 👍

For more details or to book see link in comments.

01/05/2026

🔥🔥 I have been BURSTING to share this… 🔥🔥

I NOW HAVE AN ACCREDITED MODALITY 🔥🥳

Something new has been building behind the scenes for a while now…,,,,and I honestly can’t hold it in anymore 😭✨

It’s HERE.

After waiting (not so patiently 😅) for the trademark to be confirmed, Womb Bath® is now officially registered as a modality with International Institute for Complementary Therapists 🎉
AND I am now a recognised training provider with them 🎓🙌
This one… this is HUGE .... ❤️🔥

This modality has evolved from YEARS of being in rooms, delivering ta***ic practices, holding space for people with other modailities, watching what actually creates real, lasting shifts 👀💫

What I kept seeing over and over again was this…
The deepest shifts don’t happen when we’re doing more 😮‍💨
They happen when nothing is being asked of you- when we surrender to stillness...
🤍
So I created something that honours that…... Womb Bath® 🤍🌿

A structured somatic listening experience where you lie down, fully clothed, in a calm, held space… 🛏️✨
while a steady, womb-inspired soundscape plays through the room 🎧🔊

No guidance 🚫
No pressure 🚫
No “getting it right” 🚫

Just space for your body to finally exhale 😮‍💨🌿💫
The simplicity of it is where the magic is ✨

This will land for you if you:
✨ feel constantly “on” ⚡
✨ struggle to switch off 🧠💥
✨ are holding stress in your body 😖
✨ want calm without having to try 🕊️
✨ are curious about somatic work but don’t want anything overwhelming 🤍

You can read more about it here 👇🔥
https://lorrainechapman.com/wombbath/

And for my practitioners 👀💼
This integrates BEAUTIFULLY into what you already do 💫
Those offering meditations, Sound Baths, Energy Healing, Womens Circles, Mental health groups and so much more.......this can be integrated into your work......
I’ll be offering training so you can bring Womb Bath® into your practice in a way that’s clear, ethical and professionally recognised 🎓✨

You can read more about it here 👇🔥
https://lorrainechapman.com/wombbathpractitioner/

The offical launch of sessions is coming VERY soon… ⏳✨
and the first two will be offered at a special introductory rate 🎉💥

I’ll also be sharing a video next week talking more personally about why I created this......because there’s a real story behind it 🎥❤️

This isn’t just another offering.
This feels BIG 💥
This feels NEEDED 🌍
And I am SO ready to share this🔥🔥🔥

23/04/2026

Your body has been sending you signals for years 😬

You’ve been replying with coffee.🤪

It’s getting louder. 🙄

What’s yours telling you right now? 🤔

20/04/2026

Well… this happened 👀🔥

There was a time I would have hidden this story.
Softened it. Edited it. Made it more “acceptable.”

Now it’s in print again …..
Unfiltered. Honest. Mine.

This article shares parts of my life that many people would never say out loud…
The messy bits.
The confusing bits.
The liberating, powerful, “oh wow I didn’t expect that” bits.

And here’s the truth…
I’m not sharing it for shock value.

I’m sharing it because shame thrives in silence.

For years, I didn’t understand my own body.
Didn’t speak up.
Didn’t feel in control.

And then something shifted.

Curiosity turned into exploration.
Exploration turned into understanding.
Understanding turned into freedom.

Not perfect. Not polished.
But real.

This isn’t just a story about s*x.
It’s a story about voice, choice, and owning who you are without apology.

If even one person reads that article and thinks:
“Maybe I don’t have to keep hiding either…”
Then it’s done its job.

No regrets. Just truth. 💥

19/04/2026

Completely buzzing after delivering my Couples Introduction To Ta**ra workshop x what a beautiful afternoon and evening with beautiful souls . Feeling very very blessed and honoured 💕🔥🙏

18/04/2026

Yesterday, something shifted…
and I still can’t fully explain why. Some of you will think I am crazy 😜 others of you will know exactly where I am at 🤗 and may have experienced a similar energy shift 💕

It didn’t start with anything obvious.
No big moment. No dramatic change.
Just a feeling… that something was different.

I was in a crowd, just moving through like normal, when a passing conversation caught my ear.
Not loud. Not directed at me.
But it landed… like it was meant for me.
Like out of everything happening around me, that was the one thing I was supposed to hear.

Later, I was sitting in a chicken restaurant, nothing special, just another ordinary moment… and then I noticed one of the staff.

Not what they were doing… their energy.

It hit me.
Not in a way I could explain… but I felt it.
Like something in me recognised something in them.
And for a second, I just sat there… aware… tuned in to something deeper than the moment itself.

Through the day, Steve kept looking at me… asking, “Are you ok?”

And I kept saying, “Yeah… I’m fine.”

But he wasn’t convinced.

Because something was different.
I could feel it… even if I couldn’t explain it.

Then last night, at the concert…

The opening words flashed up on the screen. And they didn’t just land… they hit.

Right in my chest.

I felt it rise before I could stop it.
That sudden welling up… like something inside me had been waiting to hear exactly that.

The songs… songs I’ve heard a hundred times before… They sounded different.

Not because they’d changed…
but because I had.

I heard things I’d never heard before.
Felt things I didn’t even know were there.
Like I was experiencing them for the first time… and remembering them at the same time.

And there were moments through it all…
where everything around me carried on as normal… people moving, talking, living… and I felt completely still.

Like I’d stepped just outside of it all.
Watching.
Aware.
Present in a way that felt almost too sharp to ignore.

Nothing had changed…but everything feels like it has.

It was subtle. Quiet. Unexplainable.

Like somewhere between the day before… and yesterday…something shifted.

No announcement.
No clear reason.
No moment I could point to and say, “that was it.”

Just a knowing. That I wasn’t quite where I had been.

I have woke up today knowing yesterday wasn’t just another day.

It was a shift.

Something in me has moved… opened… stepped forward before I even realised I was ready.

And as strange as it felt…it was not unfamiliar ….. and as silly as it may sound to some of you reading this ….I know that yesterday… I stepped into my next timeline.

I can’t explain it other than what I have done here ….it feels big. It feels real ….. let’s see what unfolds …… there was defiantly an energy shift 💥

13/04/2026

People aren’t burned out from work… they’re burned out from hiding

If you, or someone you know, is looking for a speaker, workshop facilitator, or someone to bring something real into a room… I’m here.

I work with individuals, teams, and organisations who are ready to move beyond surface-level stuff and actually shift how people show up.
Confidence. Communication. Energy. Presence. The human side of performance that often gets ignored… but changes everything when it’s unlocked.

My sessions aren’t sit-back-and-listen talks.
They’re interactive, honest, and experiential. People feel it. They leave different.

So…

👉 If your workplace needs something fresh
👉 If you’re planning an event or development day
👉 If you know a business that wants more than the usual tick-box training

Let’s have a conversation.

Drop me a message or tag someone who should see this 👇