29/07/2025
We had the most fabulous day on Sunday at our Retreat day and whilst I was pondering over my thoughts I felt compelled to share this one...
This Sunday was the first time I had separated the herd into two groups for an event. I used electric tape to split the yard and barn area into two equal areas and opened up a small paddock in each area as a distraction for each group. The horses who were not participating (for various reasons) had the better paddock which I assumed would keep them happy.
The participating horses were in a small paddock with a track around it so that the human attendees could walk around, stand, sit and observe the herd. Those horses did not have to interact with or come anywhere near us if they did not choose to.
Without exception every single horse came over to interact near the fence on their own terms and nearly all of them chose to spend the entire twenty minutes within a few feet of the group. There were no treats, food or fussing just hanging out in the same energetic space.
So what about the other group? The horses were so keen to come and interact that they left their grass to come and stand on yard areas that they always have access to observe the interactions. To clarify my horses get very little new and fresh grass at this time of year so it should have been an exciting treat. They had only had access to this new area for an hour or so but were more interested in watching humans stand a few feet away from the other group.
Now I know we can say that they are simply being curious and maybe they are, does it matter if that is all it is if it is the horses choice to interact. Can we say that horses definitely want to help heal, grow and teach us from this observation, well to me that is putting a human "doing" perspective on the moment. Can we say that horses voluntarily come into our space, stay with us whilst we think and feel, absolutely they do.
For us, the most important aspect is that the horse can leave as easily as they choose to arrive. They can leave the human, decide to not interact, if they then choose to stay in your space, to flick an ear your way or simply look at you that is often all that we need in that moment....
P.S the tape was taken down as soon as we were done and every was reunited and allowed to come and say "hi"