IEMT for Kids with Mavis

25/09/2024

Interested in Brain Research by Reputable Researchers? For many reasons, I am interested in Brain Research, especially research into the efficacy of IEMT - Integral Eye Movement Therapy because I'm an IEMT Therapist and Trainer. The IEMT Association in conjunction with a Brain Clinic in the Netherlands has found some very encouraging results about how people can be helped with IEMT. You can find more information about it in the link in the comment box.

If you would like to train in IEMT, I have a course starting in November on 4 weekends, afternoons, UK time. You are welcome to join us, even if you are not a therapist. IEMT can often help you sort out your own problems, and the IEMT Community is an amazing group of people with practice groups that encourage people to help themselves and increase their skills to use with clients if they are therapists. Please message me about this if you are interested.

23/09/2024

As you probably know, I shall be presenting another online IEMT Practitioner Course in November.

What IEMT Practioners enjoy most about learning IEMT is how you can get to the crux of the matter reasonably quickly and deal with it quickly for most clients.

Some like it because you don't have to spend homework time thinking about how to work with your forthcoming client because you know how to deal with that unhelpful thought or that unhelpful memory or that episode of trauma, as your client presents it to you.

Others prefer to use IEMT because you don't have to spend sometimes, hours preparing specific hypnotic scripts, as you do when using traditional hypnotherapy.

Everyone enjoys seeing the bemused faces of individuals when a client's unhelpful thought or memory has changed, so much, that their anxiety has been released and they wonder how it happened.

There are probably other reasons too, but these are the ones I hear the most frequently. If you would like to join us in November, the link with all the details is in the comment box.
You can also message me to ask questions.

17/09/2024

Therapists tell me how much IEMT - Integral Eye Movement Therapy - has helped them personally, and in their therapy business, helping other people, where other therapies have made no changes.

It has helped me too in many different ways. For example, I sometimes use it to help in my tutoring business to help children with limiting beliefs about their ability to learn.

If you would like to train in IEMT in November let me know by private message and in the meantime, you can join my private Facebook group, where there is lots of information about IEMT.
The link to my group is in the comments below.

20/06/2024

As you may know, an important fundamental of training in IEMT is the 5 PrinciplePatterns of Chronicity. Like many others, when listening for Patterns of Chronicity I find some of these are easy to notice, and some, indeed, can be disguised.
The book I'm writing for parents and tutors, whose children have homework problems, is partly based on the Patterns of Chronicity and The Three Pillars of the Problem (AKA in IEMT as the Three Pillars of Depression)
Pattern of Chronicity #1 is about the Three Stage Abreaction process and as far as young people are concerned it can sometimes be demonstrated in this way:
Stage 1 of the abreaction that their student offspring will express, is
I can't do it!
It's unlikely that this young person will understand/appreciate the
basic IEMT response: That's right! You (think you) can't do it.
They'll probably end up in tears and progress to the next stage:
Stage 2
"Yeah, you know I'm dyslexic -
I can't do any of this."
Stage 3
Throws the book, screams, blames everyone, as he disappears to his bedroom.
But what can you say to a person, young or old, who says "I can't do it" - in any situation?
IF I'VE ALREADY GIVEN YOU SOME HELP WITH THIS - PLEASE DON'T WRITE IT BELOW.
ARE YOU INTERESTED IN LEARNING ABOUT HOW YOU COULD RESPOND TO SOMEONE LIKELY TO BE EASILY SPARKED OFF - WHEN YOU HAVE TO PICK UP THE PIECES?

INTERESTED? You can attend my 60 minute *FREE* *Webinar* NEXT MONDAY 24TH JUNE -LUNCHTIME 1PM-2PM about all the meanings of the phrase
"I can't do it"
and I'll explain how at least 3 of the other Patterns of Chronicity could be hidden in this outburst.
PLEASE MESSAGE ME PRIVATELY IF YOU WOULD LIKE A LINK TO THE WEBINAR.

13/06/2024

I used to read the Beano and Dandy and the new Topper for a while when it first appeared. I still recall the first gift from Topper! I then went on to School Friend and Girl. I've always wondered why my mother would buy me comics but not spend money on books.

My comic of choice was The Beano.🇬🇧

13/06/2024

I've just reached 200 followers! Thank you for continuing support. I could never have made it without each and every one of you. 🙏🤗🎉

30/05/2024

What's affecting you at the moment?
I've been working on the IEMT Patterns of Chronicity (PoCs) to explain them more in layman's terms - jargon-free in terms of therapy - for the parents of the children I help because knowing about these PoCs and understanding them can often be the solvent that can get them out of a stuck state. They are one of the fundamentals of IEMT (Integral Eye Movement Technique)

Some inconvenient things that happen can have a major negative effect on us on some days but not on others.

You know - like going to the car in the morning and finding the car battery or car tyre flat. If we're in a rush to get somewhere it might affect us differently than if we were just going out for a drive around the countryside. It might affect us differently if we subscribe to some form of roadside assistance that also offers help on your drive, than if we had to sort it out ourselves. It might also depend on the mood we happen to be in at the time.

As a therapist and coach, I help people change their perspective on things that happen in their life, to be in a better mood more often, and help them realise they can be more in charge of their life than they think or feel they can.

Generally, people find more clarity when they're not stuck in unhelpful thoughts and emotions and can sort out their own problems, sometimes without therapy. In effect, they coach themselves.

If you're an IEMT Practitioner you may have had experiences of how you changed things for yourself or your clients, by referring them to PoC #5? This is an important one for all therapists and coaches because, probably, the majority of people who come to see you are at the effect of something.

I am sometimes affected by 'things' too, sometimes because of the occasional unhelpful or pointed comment from someone, which I can mostly do something about, however, if I can't, I can change my often initial unhelpful perspective on it, using the ideas from IEMT. It's not always easy to do, but I feel much better when I do.
Clarity works wonders!

This is my description of PoC #5.

5. Being “At Effect” rather than “Being at Cause”
When you feel like life happens to you, like you have no control, and, therefore, you can’t make any changes in your life you are being “at effect”- always affected and influenced by other people, your own persistent negative voice in your head, or by things in the environment.

When this happens, people of any age may have experienced an unhelpful emotion happening to them. They may not be aware that in most cases they can change an emotional response and learn to be in charge of emotional responses at least most of the time, by changing their perspective. And one of the ways that you and they can do this is by learning how to skillfully use eye-movement techniques.

When we experience unhelpful emotions of any specific event, many times it's not the event itself that causes it, but a build-up of similar incidents from the past that have been coded as related memories in their brain. These coded memories give us unhelpful thoughts and unhelpful emotions.

When you take charge of your thoughts and rationalise them (more about rationalising thoughst in my next post) and reduce or eliminate the unhelpful emotions surrounding your memories, - especially the memories triggered by the words or actions of others, it can transform your life and influence you to be who you want to be and do what you want to do.

Have a great day!

If you'd like to know more about this, comment below or message me!

26/04/2024

Already trained in IEMT? Then you can join my IEMT Practitioner Level IDENTITY 5-hour COURSE Next Monday 29th and Tuesday, 30th April from 2pm - 4.30pm, if you wish to learn more about it.
It's a low-cost course.
For full details -of how to book the course, please send me a PM

All Ts&Cs and the Privacy notice will be in line with GDPR and will be sent to you with your details.
For full details, remember to send me a PM.
I shall teach mainly about Identity and give you plenty of time to practice. I'll also give you some extra information about Identity and PoCs and 2 ideas from the advanced IEMT Course to practice.

See you there!

15/02/2024

I've just sent out the details of my IEMTwith Children Course for IEMT trainees who asked for them.

Would you like to join us on 24th, 25th Feb and 2nd, 3rd March weekends, 1.30pm-3.30pm?

If so just message me.