28/08/2024
Scared to rest?
‘Giving in’ or yielding to the need to rest is vital.
I hear from a lot of people resisting their need to rest, even when they are directed to prioritise rest by a health professional.
There’s just so much resistance to taking rest in our highly pressurised lives in a post-industrialised society.
Many people carry on still forcing their bodies to do more than they have capacity for, further depleting their reserves, as if it’s some kind of moral victory to keep on keeping on…
That sort of belief is conditioned by environment - upbringing and society - it doesn’t make it true or real, even though it can feel so.
It’s interesting how often people express fear of rest and what will happen when they finally do allow themselves to…
The irony being that if they don’t rest when their bodies and minds are exhausted they will find out sooner or later anyway, only it will be a big old, full blown, burn out, breakdown or crash that will take much much longer to recover from than giving in to rest.
There’s a whole reframe around rest and what constitutes rest, including constructive rest.
Think back to the Victorians who really formalised the role of the medical profession in treating conditions of the body, mind and spirit when bed rest was regularly prescribed for all manner of ailments, often with good effect.
Water cures, time by the sea or in mountain air etc. were all seen as beneficial for recovery from illness or injury.
Rest is restorative and slows the body to come back to homeostasis, the state of having had all primary needs met so that the body can repair, reset and renew itself, just as it is designed to.
We can change our relationship with rest and see it as a valuable resource building practice, rather than an inconvenience or a luxury.
Rest is vital.
How will you meet your need for rest today?