08/08/2025
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Don’t you just hate it when you buy something and then you have to fix it? I spent a good part of yesterday doing just that: fixing seams, reinforcing trouser elastic that’s already come loose, securing a band that flips over. It’s annoying and time consuming 😡 and necessary if I want to wear it and keep my butt covered!
It made me think about how often parents have to fix the work of others, particularly when it comes to EHCP’s. I don’t think I’ve ever seen an EHCP that didn’t need some corrections at least. And in many cases just had to be rewritten! I also don’t know any profession where routinely sending out such poor quality work is not a cause for dismissal. And yet, when it comes to children’s specialist support, this is the norm.
Things that annoy me:
- getting a child’s name wrong
- “mum says”. It is unprofessional and lazy. Use better words and people’s names for goodness sake!
- outdated information. Seeing stuff relating to a 5 year old in a 16 year old’s EHCP sends my blood pressure through the roof! Hello Annual Reviews!? 🙄
The worst part: parents often don’t have the skills or time to do this. Many find it confusing and overwhelming. Or worry about getting it wrong. Or simply don’t want to - which is perfectly reasonable as case officers are actually paid to get this right, not parents!
But we do it because if we don’t, it won’t get fixed. And like my trousers, it will cause drama when you least expect it and put you in a tricky position. So we just get on with it. We just pile on more responsibility on top of the million things we already do. Because our children matter.
What winds you up about EHCP’s? Or things that you need to fix to support your child because other people don’t?
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Hi! If you are new here: I’m Christelle and I help parents learn some skills to be formidable parent advocates for their child with additional needs. I also make useful stuff that will help you with the SENDmin (“SEND Admin” = SENDmin - yes I made that up but it works 😆)