01/02/2026
⭐New Blog Post ⭐
Sometimes the hardest shift in parenting is letting go of who we think our children should be, and noticing who they are right now 💜
A toddler wandering in a café isn’t being naughty.
A child melting down isn’t choosing chaos.
A baby who won’t settle isn’t giving you a hard time - they’re having a hard time.
Development isn’t linear, and behaviour is communication.
When emotions run high, little brains aren’t able to listen, learn or reason yet. The teaching moment comes later, once they feel safe and regulated.
Meeting children where they are means adjusting our expectations to their age, stage and nervous system… not asking them to cope like mini adults.
Connection first. Understanding always 💜
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