29/01/2026
Last night I headed off to Market Harborough to give a talk at the Women’s Institute on stress management & sleep… and honestly, the universe decided to test my own stress management skills en route😅
🤦🏽♀️I arrived later than I should have thanks to traffic, even after allowing lots of extra time to get there!
🤦🏽♀️I couldn’t find a parking space because apparently drivers in Market Harborough need 1.5 spaces for their cars
🤦🏽♀️IT issues – my powerpoint presentation would not connect to the screen
🤦🏽♀️My backup paper flipchart (because yes, I always have one)… the clip broke in the car when I had to slam my brakes on after someone cut me up
🤦🏽♀️Which also resulted in my stress balls flying across the car for good measure
But… I practiced what I preach.
✔️Slow breathing
✔️Grabbed a brew
✔️Slowed down and positive self talk
And then I went in and smashed the talk out the bag
Around 60 lovely ladies came along, I had some really positive feedback!
At the end, when I asked “Any questions?” it wasn’t tumble w**d, I was asked 5 questions (which I answered confidently).
The final giggle though was getting home and realising that I’d wore my dress back to front all day 🤦🏽♀️
It was a perfect reminder that maintaining my stress bucket on a daily basis gives me the space and capacity to deal with life when it throws a wobble. I could laugh at myself, trust my preparation, stay confident, and roll with it with a smile on my face - instead of spiralling.
Real-life stress happens. The goal isn’t to avoid it… it’s to have the tools and resources under your belt to handle it better 💛
Thanks
Bekki 🫶🏽