18/03/2026
🌺 Mother’s Day morning I had an expectation that everything would be “perfect”, lots of cuddles and laughter and everyone being the best of friends 🩵
❌ THE REALITY… both boys were shattered from holiday, we were feeling overwhelmed with the jobs that needed doing plus busy weekends for birthdays/Mother’s Day either side of the holiday (usually a boundary we have is to have quiet weekends before/after to alleviate the pressure!)
I’m probably not exaggerating if I say there were 100 arguments before 10am, lots of tears (even from me!) and it felt for a minute like Mother’s Day was ruined even though my husband had tried to make it the perfect morning for me 🩵
But I shouldn’t get stressed/overwhelmed right? Because I’m a hypnotherapist?! Wrong! Having this expectation only adds to the pressure.
Knowing stress management tools doesn’t mean I never get stressed, it means that I have the resources to be able to cope better in stressful situations so that the stressful things don’t ruin the whole day, I’m able to bounce back quicker as I have the space in my stress bucket to be able to do so 😊
So what did I do?
🧘♀️ I took myself upstairs for ten minutes to do some deep breathing and calm my overstimulated nervous system
🏃♀️ I went out for a run, I had planned to do a speed session but I took it easy for a 30 minute steady run instead on my own too, no kids, no dog, 😉 no headphones, just me in nature 🌲
🥰 I returned home and had a big long cuddle with the boys, research shows that a hug that lasts 3-4 seconds releases oxytocin (the love hormone)
After this, we started the day again and had a lovely Mother’s Day 🌺
So now I know, even though I support others with their stresses, I too am allowed to feel overwhelmed, that’s ok ✌🏼