
22/07/2025
How are you feeling?
It’s tough if you have stuff going on to feel anything but stuck.
When I speak to clients who are stuck, I know that the first thing I need to do is to ‘unstick’ them.
Being stuck usually means that they can’t imagine a future. And they definitely can’t imagine a future that’s happy. I notice this by examining the detail of what they say and what they do.
The sort of behaviour that will keep you stuck is repetitive. Groundhog Day is my way of describing the repetition of the same day, and doing the same thing, over and over. But with the hope that things will get better.
Being stuck is about repeating the same negative thoughts over and over in your brain, but with the hope that you’ll start to feel better.
Sometimes, clients don’t have that hope, so that’s where we start. The start of any change is with hope.
Here are my top 3 ways to be more hopeful:
⭐ Reassess the situation - try and see things through somebody else's eyes
⭐Gratitude- write a list of things you are grateful for
⭐Look to others for help and support
Hope is such an essential part of change and happiness.