Barefoot Life

13/04/2026

Why do some “high vibe” events leave us feeling pretty meh?
You know the ones, it looked awesome and you’ve spent a small fortune to be there..but something just isn’t landing.
So you smile, you play along, you tell yourself you’re having fun...but you’re not, not really... it feels like 'forced fun'
Ive been to a lot of festivals in my time and here’s the truth no one says out loud: Your nervous system doesnt buy the hype, because “high vibe” isn’t the same as high stimulation - loud music, big crowds, alcohol, people performing for each other, this can look like freedom, but feel like pressure. The moment you think "I should be enjoying this” you’ve already disconnected from yourself.

That’s where the flatness comes from afterwards and that weird “meh” feeling you can’t explain.

It’s not that you’ve lost your ability to have fun or 'i must be getting old' it’s that your body is getting better at recognising what isn’t for you and thats awesome
Real energy feels different, it’s not forced, it’s not performative and doesn’t need convincing.

If it feels like you can exhale, you’re fully yourself
and you’re not trying, you’re just in the moment, thats when you've found your people and your vibe

Sometimes it’s the smaller event, the right people and the right timing.
So next time you feel it… don’t override it.
That “meh” isn’t a problem, it’s your compass.

You can also tell the festivals that been created with soul and when it’s just been put together to make a lot of money from the get go. The best festivals aren’t accidental, they’re built with intention, a clear story and something real at their core.

You can always tell the ones that aren’t.

If its frequency alignment - thats where the magic is

10/04/2026

I'm sure when I look back on this life and get asked 'when was your best day ever?' yesterday is going to be up there

07/04/2026

We are here this weekend!!

04/04/2026

01/04/2026

This place had a big impact on us, I haven't stopped thinking about some of the stories I heard when we were in India and as people that know me well know all animals but especially dogs are very very very special to me so here's our first reel of 3 on this, a percentage of Tweedy Clothing annual profits will be going to this great charity.

01/04/2026

The challenge - reactive, impulsive, impatient, a bit “me first” energy but put to good use and this could one heck of a powerful month!

31/03/2026

The Full Moon in Libra tomorrow - the pink moon brings your focus straight to the balance between you and your relationships with others. With the Sun in Aries just moving away from Saturn and Neptune, there’s a sense that something may have recently clicked into place - even if it felt heavy at the time, clarity may start to land under this moon.

But in the lead up, the Moon opposes Mars and that’s where things can feel charged. Emotions rise faster, reactions come sharper, and tension in relationships can surface quickly, you may feel pulled between keeping the peace and standing your ground.

Libra energy wants harmony, fairness, and mutual respect and the square to Jupiter in Cancer turns the volume up on emotions, especially around home, security, and personal needs. Feelings may feel bigger than usual, reactions quicker, and expectations harder to manage. This Full Moon is less about surface peace and more about honest recalibration.
There could also be tension here in overgiving, overpromising, or expecting more than is realistic. You might notice yourself slipping between people pleasing and emotional defensiveness, which only creates more imbalance.
This is one full moon to conciously pull your energy back where it’s being drained, and be honest about what feels fair. Be clear, try not to be reactive (a lot of Aries energy out there right now) manage expectations, stay grounded, and don’t commit to things just because youre in the moment, instead, slow it down.

Heres a few recent pics from Grand Cayman, pink lady, the sunset a few nights ago and the the moon here last night over the Caribbean sea...absolutely stunning! And the last one just because it made me lol!

28/03/2026

We visited this beautiful place yesterday, we loved it...even our kids enjoyed it and my outfit matched the flowers! I just love wearing bright colours...dress like the life you want to attract!

26/03/2026

This one can be a wake up call for a lot of us! Venus/Chiron (especially in Aries) conjunction (exact tomorrow but active all week) can bring up wounds around -
Love & relationships - rejection, not feeling chosen, not feeling a priority
Friendships - feeling overlooked, undervalued, or like you give more
Money - linking your worth to what you earn or receive
Selfworth - am I enough?

Is it good for healing? Yes, if you actually respond differently.
Healing here is not chasing when you feel the urge to, saying no when you’d usually overextend, not tying your value to someone’s response and choosing self-respect in the moment it’s hardest.

Aries is action, not just insight and this aspect is not here to punish, It’s here to show us - this is where you still abandon yourself, now choose differently.