
13/10/2024
It started one sunny Friday morning when I opened the door to a meeting room and saw the trainer. A real firefighter, a sergeant with biceps like Popeye the Sailor’s. Hmm, winked at me my inner naughty demon, perhaps the morning is going to be fun after all. And it was.
Although that not why I have decided to write this post.
There was something which stuck with me more than Popeye’s biceps. He told how often when firefighters arrive at the scene fire wardens say: ‘I think everyone is out of the building…I think…’ He asked not to give this ambiguous answer. As people’s lives at stake and they can’t go with uncertainty. If you are not 100% sure that there is nobody in the building affected by the fire - say I don’t know if everyone is out. If you have checked your designated area and nobody was there, say it. Not confident everyone is out? Admit it.
Apparently it can be hard. I’ve seen people acting with this uncertainty in my life and, I THINK, can understand why BUT I also feel it’s not ok. If one can’t admit they are not confident or they haven’t done something or they struggle to admit something they have done, it weakens our systems, societies, companies and ourselves. Once we defined our boundaries we can keep / widen it (please choose the right option 🙃).
Don’t start with I THINK 😜
Sincerely yours,
Me, newly qualified fire warden and always a yogi, looking at the world through a spiritual lens 😘