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Eleni Kouloumou - Devotional Love & Soft Power Coach, Woking (2025)

20/09/2025

🌹 𝐈𝐭’𝐬 𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞: the masterclass for the woman who’s done mistaking chaos for chemistry.

You’ve journaled. You’ve healed.
You swore you wouldn’t go back.

And still…
The spark pulls you toward the ones who don’t stay.
The adrenaline feels alive —
While calm feels suspicious.

You’re not broken.
You’re just wired for a love your body doesn’t yet recognize as safe.

The more you chase the rush, the more your nervous system learns that calm = danger.

You’ll keep leaving the men who could stay — and the part of you that wants stability won’t trust your next yes either.

That’s what we’ll rewire together.

✨ When Chaos Feels Like Love
𝐴 𝑀𝑎𝑠𝑡𝑒𝑟𝑐𝑙𝑎𝑠𝑠 𝑡𝑜 𝑅𝑒𝑤𝑖𝑟𝑒 𝑌𝑜𝑢𝑟 𝐴𝑡𝑡𝑟𝑎𝑐𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝐶ℎ𝑜𝑜𝑠𝑒 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝐿𝑜𝑣𝑒 𝑇ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑆𝑡𝑎𝑦𝑠

Inside this live experience, you’ll learn to:
✅ Understand why calm feels unsafe — and reset it at the root
✅ Stop spiraling for “the spark” — and start anchoring in connection
✅ Feel turned on by trust — not trauma
✅ Reclaim your power to choose love from wholeness, not urgency

📅 Date: Sunday, October 5th
🕰️ Time: 8PM UK / 3PM ET
🎥 Replay included
💫 Investment: £25 / $31
(𝘚𝘰𝘧𝘵𝘦𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘯 𝘢 𝘮𝘢𝘯𝘪𝘤𝘶𝘳𝘦. 𝘋𝘦𝘦𝘱𝘦𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘯 𝘢 𝘣𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘬𝘵𝘩𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩.)

👇 Reserve your spot now and let love land in your body:
🔗 Link in comments

Let’s stop calling safety boring.
Let’s rewire the spark that stays.

11/12/2024

𝐀𝐫𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐝𝐲 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐩 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐬 𝐰𝐫𝐨𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐲𝐨𝐮?

Tired of thinking you’re the problem? Like something is keeping you from the love and validation you crave? 😔

🔴 Maybe you’ve wondered: Why hasn’t anyone fought to win my heart?

The truth is, none of them stuck around after the 2-month mark to pamper you with gifts, fun dates, or even the undivided attention you need.

They just gradually let go of the effort, leaving you feeling like you weren’t enough.

What if this wasn’t about you being the wrong one though? What if it was about finding 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐨𝐧 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮 instead?

👉 What you really desire is to feel cherished—fully, inside and out. To feel validated and know, without a doubt, that you matter.

But here’s the truth: 𝐓𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐧𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐡𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐧 𝐢𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐟𝐢𝐫𝐬𝐭.

I’m not talking about just feeling love for yourself. I’m talking about proving it.

𝐇𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐛𝐞𝐞𝐧 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐬𝐚𝐢𝐝 𝐡𝐞 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮, 𝐛𝐮𝐭 𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐝𝐢𝐝𝐧’𝐭 𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐜𝐡? He was too busy to meet up, or forgot to even call to congratulate you on your promotion?

You wanted to believe him, but his actions told a different story. 🤷🏻‍♀️

𝐅𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐢𝐬𝐧’𝐭 𝐞𝐧𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡. You need love that proves itself through 𝐀𝐂𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍.

In my 𝐑𝐞𝐜𝐥𝐚𝐢𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐋𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝟐𝟓-𝐃𝐚𝐲 𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐠𝐞, we’re going to prove that love to you—through consistent, intentional actions. ✅

We’ll also uncover those sneaky "leaks"—the behaviours and choices you’re making that are secretly taking love away from you.

And we’re going deeper than you think. This isn’t just surface-level change. We’ll dive into the habits, beliefs, and behaviors that have kept you stuck, and we’ll transform them.

As one of my clients shared "Working with her was unlike anything I’d ever experienced—she helped me shift subconscious beliefs that were keeping me stuck in dating."

In this challenge, we leave no stone unturned. We’ll focus on the little things that make all the difference in attracting the right partner. 🎯

𝐀𝐫𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐝𝐲 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐬𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐦 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐚𝐜𝐡 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞—𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐚𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮?

Imagine a partner who cherishes you and goes above and beyond to show it—like driving across town just to get your favorite Crème brûlée from that quirky French bakery that’s about to close down. 🇫🇷 🧁

That’s the level of commitment you deserve. 🙌

If you're tired of feeling stuck and ready to attract the love you deserve, this challenge is for you.

Want in? Click the link in the comments below!

Just $35 for a life-changing experience—that’s less than $2 a day! 🤩

Plus, I’m including my unique Boundaries Toolkit, which has transformed the lives of so many clients.

You don’t want to miss this! ⬇️⬇️⬇️

05/11/2024

Unset boundaries lead to painful consequences. Choose Wisely ⛔️

28/10/2024

✨ 𝐇𝐞𝐫𝐞’𝐬 𝐚 𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐨 𝐚𝐬𝐤 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟:

𝐖𝐡𝐨 𝐢𝐬 𝐬𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐬? 𝐋𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐨𝐫 𝐘𝐎𝐔? ✨

The secret many of us don’t realize is that if you don’t set your own boundaries, life will do it for you . . . And often in ways you least expect or appreciate.

Like the boyfriend you sacrificed yourself for, who finally dumps you and it hurts. ⚔❗❗

Instead of protecting yourself by not giving in to his “childish” demands to stop spending time with your friends, YOU started monitoring everything you said and did to keep him happy. 👎

🛑 Only it was never good enough . . . I mean it would have never been 𝐔𝐍𝐋𝐄𝐒𝐒 & 𝐔𝐍𝐓𝐈𝐋 he sorted out his insecurities.

Sorry not sorry to say this.

𝐑𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐳𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐡𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐧 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐎𝐍𝐋𝐘 𝐰𝐚𝐲 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐟𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐭𝐡𝐲 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞.

It was the only way for me too.

⚠ Because choosing to have what I call a boundary-less relationship costs you the pain of rejection at the very minimum.

You DON’T deserve that.

You are worthy of the person who can give you the best.

Your soulmate? Isn’t that what you expected me to say? BUT it’s NOT. 😉

𝐓𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐨𝐧 (𝐟𝐢𝐫𝐬𝐭 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐬𝐭) 𝐢𝐬 𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐜𝐡𝐨𝐢𝐜𝐞𝐬.

So how about we put you in the driving seat of your life, instead of letting life take over your future with dire consequences. 🔥🔥🔥

𝐖𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐇𝐎𝐖? ⬇⬇⬇

I have the perfect recording for you and until November 15th, you can access it for FREE.

It’s my 2-day event with the exact steps on manifesting healthy relationships.

Interested? Comment "yes" or DM me for the link!

𝑀𝑎𝑘𝑒 𝑠𝑢𝑟𝑒 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑎𝑐𝑡 𝑓𝑎𝑠𝑡 𝑡ℎ𝑜𝑢𝑔ℎ —𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑠 𝑤𝑖𝑙𝑙 𝑠𝑜𝑜𝑛 𝑏𝑒 𝑎 𝑝𝑎𝑖𝑑 𝑚𝑎𝑠𝑡𝑒𝑟𝑐𝑙𝑎𝑠𝑠.

Let’s break free from the past and create a brighter future for you! 💖

01/10/2024

𝐅𝐫𝐞𝐞 𝐌𝐚𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐜𝐥𝐚𝐬𝐬 𝐀𝐥𝐞𝐫𝐭

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This manifestation mistake is WHY you haven't manifested your soulmate yet.

👇👇👇

You're focusing too much on visualizing HIM in the future and y̳o̳u̳'̳r̳e̳ ̳n̳o̳t̳ ̳p̳r̳e̳s̳e̳n̳t̳ ̳i̳n̳ ̳y̳o̳u̳r̳ ̳l̳i̳f̳e̳ ̳n̳o̳w̳.̳

👉 Which makes you lose touch with reality and miss opportunities of love.

I want you to think of manifesting love as the art of baking 🍰

Your soulmate = the finished cake ❤

But ❗ first, you need the ingredients: moments that make you feel loved and appreciated.

In fact, in the same way that top chefs fall in love with their ingredients 🍚🍍🍈 YOU also need to fall in love with what I call your life's "WHOLE" moments.

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐨𝐥𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐞𝐱𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐥𝐲?

Moments that suck you in, making you fully present and your life worthwhile. 💎

When I review my work with clients who nailed love, this is the common ingredient: They've all learned the skill of living fully 🧘‍♀️🤸‍♀️💃

As crazy as it might sound, love is not about finding HIM.

But about learning HOW to live whole moments in sequence, which ALWAYS leads you in finding your soulmate.

𝐎𝐧 𝐎𝐜𝐭𝐨𝐛𝐞𝐫 𝟏𝟒𝐭𝐡 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝟏𝟓𝐭𝐡, 𝐈 𝐚𝐦 𝐡𝐨𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚 𝟐-𝐝𝐚𝐲 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐈 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐢𝐫𝐬𝐭 𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐩𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐮𝐥𝐥𝐲, 𝐬𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐟𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐡𝐢𝐦 𝐬𝐨𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐞𝐝.

Now, for the first time ever, I’ve taken the secrets that helped me manifest love and create synchronicities in my relationships and life, and put them into a 2-day free Masterclass called 𝐈𝐍𝐒𝐓𝐀𝐍𝐓𝐋𝐘.

In this Masterclass, I’ll teach you the exact first steps to mastering the art of love manifestation.

🙌 If you’re tired of hiding from the world in fear of rejection…

✌️ If you’re ready to let go of disappointment and adopt a YES mindset, where everything feels like an opportunity…

🫳 If you’re ready to release limiting ideas of what love “should” look like…

Then THIS Masterclass is designed for YOU.

🦋 This is where true expansion happens.

You may even find yourself attracting men who ask you out in the most unexpected places—just by applying what you learn. Don’t be surprised 😉.

When you’re fully open and in love with life, life will reward you with exciting, unique opportunities.

And trust me, this isn’t like any other manifestation class. We’re not talking about mood boards or affirmations.

💫 We’re diving deeper—unlocking your power to manifest love through actionable, real-world steps.

Want to join me?

Drop the word "INSTANTLY" below or DM me.

11/09/2024

𝐄𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐡𝐚𝐝 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐬𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐟𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐞𝐱𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐥𝐲 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐭? 𝐆𝐨𝐨𝐝 𝐨𝐫 𝐁𝐚𝐝?

𝐀𝐧𝐝 𝐝𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐬𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐭𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐡 𝐮𝐬 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞? 𝐑𝐞𝐚𝐝 𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐨 𝐟𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐨𝐮𝐭.

I'm told I’m great at manifesting. Like when I wished to have some alone time and the right opportunity came up for me to spend a week away from my family having all the time I needed by myself.

Two nights ago, I made up this bedtime story for my kids about this beautiful deer that was wandering near a big house, on the outskirts of a forest 🌳🌳

Come the next morning, as I'm driving my eldest to school, a deer appears out of nowhere in the road.

I quickly slam the breaks only for the deer to trot safely to the other side and into the trees. Phew!!

Deer are one of my favorite animals 🦌 and I went on about my day feeling so much gratitude for this magical encounter.

It wasn’t until later that night, when I was about to craft yet another bedtime story for my kids that it hit me.

𝐓𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐝𝐞𝐞𝐫 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐦𝐲 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐲, 𝐈𝐍 𝐑𝐄𝐀𝐋 𝐋𝐈𝐅𝐄.

𝐂𝐚𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐛𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐯𝐞 𝐢𝐭? 𝐆𝐨𝐨𝐬𝐞𝐛𝐮𝐦𝐩𝐬 💥💥💥
𝐈 𝐤𝐧𝐞𝐰 𝐈 𝐡𝐚𝐝 𝐭𝐨𝐮𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐝 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐌𝐀𝐆𝐈𝐂𝐀𝐋.

✨ When you live in the moment;

✨When you soak life’s little joys;

✨When you dive in feeling these moments in your imagination without any expectations (exactly how I come up with my stories);

Some amazing things can happen 🙌

And these "WHOLE" moments as I call them are the meaning of life and relationships.

❌ Your dating or romance is not just about finding that “happily ever after.” That’s the end result of the little moments.

✔️ Your dating or romance is about enjoying each step of the journey, appreciating the little things your date does, and figuring out what truly makes you happy along the way.

It’s a skill to be fully present in the moment, and it’s something I guide my clients how to do along with all the shortcuts to get there.

🔥 When you appreciate your partner for those little moments like how they touched your shoulder or looked at you with understanding for that split second, you will attract more moments like that.

Moments that suck you in and make life worthwhile.

You see dating is not about finding him.

It is about finding each moment, followed by another WHOLE moment and then those moments make up your fulfilling love story 💞

𝐈𝐭’𝐬 𝐚 𝐬𝐤𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐞𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐞𝐦𝐛𝐨𝐝𝐢𝐞𝐝 𝐛𝐞𝐜𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐩 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐮𝐥𝐥𝐲, 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐦𝐚𝐠𝐢𝐜 𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐬𝐨𝐥𝐯𝐞𝐬.

So here’s a fun challenge for all of you manifestors out there.

What’s the coolest moment you manifested recently? Drop your stories in the comments below. 👇👇👇

01/09/2024

𝐌𝐚𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐒𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐋𝐨𝐯𝐞: 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐒𝐞𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐅𝐥𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐢𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐑𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩𝐬 🌟 𝐏𝐨𝐝𝐜𝐚𝐬𝐭 𝐋𝐢𝐧𝐤 𝐢𝐧 𝐂𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐅𝐫𝐞𝐞 𝐈𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭𝐬!!!
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🪄 Is saying "I Love You" to yourself the best way to practice Self-love?

The answer might surprise you because it’s NOT. ❌

Have you ever recited affirmations to boost your self-esteem, but still stayed at the exact same place?

🔺Feeling angry as ever at the way he ignored you, but still so drawn to him despite his lack of commitment.

🔺 Or Are you still hanging out with that "friend" who repeatedly creates drama in your life, claiming this is about forgiveness and being open minded;

The truth of the matter is that reciting affirmations is too weak to lead you to self love.

𝐁𝐞𝐜𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐝𝐬 𝐨𝐧𝐥𝐲 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐯𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐝𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐢𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲’𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐜𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐞𝐝 𝐛𝐲 𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬. 💪

One of my clients just nailed it the other day when she recognised that she now trusts her husband because he’s not just empty words.

She ONLY started believing him now that his actions matched his language. 🏆🏆🏆

And this is the deal: Words only have power if Actions match them.

For you to feel loved, YOUR WORDS NEED TO MATCH YOUR ACTIONS. 🔥

In fact, you don’t need words at all to show you that someone loves you. BUT you do need actions.

𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬: 𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐝𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮’𝐫𝐞 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐝?

🔑 That’s the key and here’s a glimpse of what this looks like:

👉 Refusing to complain about what you don't like and leaping into planned action to gain what you desire .

👉 No more numbing and indulging in acts of self destruction.

👉 No more freezing and staying put thinking that's only temporary.

👉 Full accountability and being there when sadness visits you.

It's not for the fearful, but for the brave who're ready to take on whatever comes their way and process it in exchange for a life with a purpose.

So when you say that you love yourself, think again.
Do you really? Your Actions count!!!

𝐖𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐒𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐋𝐨𝐯𝐞?
This is a topic I covered recently in 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐒𝐞𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐭𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐚 𝐕𝐢𝐛𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐖𝐨𝐦𝐚𝐧 𝐏𝐨𝐝𝐜𝐚𝐬𝐭 I was invited on by Ashika Lessani - Women's Personal Mastery & Leadership Coach.

Check the link in the comments below ⬇️ to gain more insights and practical actionable steps on how to master Self-Love & relationships 💘💓💞

14/08/2024

I am loved because you love me. Hmm…WATCH OUT that
you don’t base your lovability on someone else’s feelings towards you; true love always starts from within YOU💪

04/08/2024

𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐦 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐣𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐲𝐬 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐦𝐨𝐬𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐮𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐬𝐜𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥.

And by Intentional, I mean true to what we stand for.

▪️ We tend to hide our true feelings of disapproval (towards our date’s behaviour) so we’re not judged.

▪️ We often keep quiet even when our other half belittles us.

▪️ Only to feel humiliated later because we did not have the guts to express ourselves clearly and to take a stand right from the start.

👉 Have you ever given up your choice of setting a boundary because it would be met with resistance?

👉 Have you ever decided to turn a blind eye to that chest pain you felt whenever he patronised you because your mum always told you to stop making a fuss?

And so you learnt to push down all of your emotions because they simply didn’t matter.

They didn’t matter to your parents and so you internalised that and made that mean that they’d never mattered to you.

🤷🏻‍♀️ Who are we fooling though?
Those emotions are still within you, trapped and making you feel empty …

Opening the fridge late at night for that ice cream seems to be the only way to appease the pain from not hearing from him 🍧🍧🍧

Keeping all your weekends packed so you don’t have to be still and realise this relationship is not working out 📦

👎 Numbing down feelings for the quick fixes and instant gratifications of cruising.

Living a lie . . .

𝐂𝐚𝐧 𝐰𝐞 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞 𝐒𝐓𝐎𝐏 𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐂𝐇𝐎𝐎𝐒𝐄 𝐭𝐨 𝐫𝐢𝐬𝐞?

♦️ Welcome disappointment … it leads to better choices!

♦️ Welcome pain, it deepens your appreciation of caring people.

♦️ Welcome the truth, the only way for you to live as a wise adult who learns what joy is all about.

Letting go of choosing badly and then blaming the world around for your choices.

Accountability!

Want to be a victor in love?

Want to feel heard, appreciated and understood?

Start living consciously ❤️‍🔥

27/07/2024

Do you think that love coaching is about attracting your soulmate?

Well, it’s not ❌

In fact, attracting your soulmate should be the last thing on your list.

It’s the end result of a longer journey: that of learning to love yourself unconditionally ⚡️⚡️⚡️

And if this sounds corny, how about you give it the benefit of the doubt.

Truth is when you experience the unconditional love I’m speaking about, you’ll feel lighter, braver and a lot cooler.

𝐋𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮'𝐯𝐞 𝐟𝐢𝐧𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐦𝐞𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐛𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐟𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐢𝐭'𝐬 𝐬𝐮𝐜𝐡 𝐚 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐟 𝐭𝐨 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐱 𝐛𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐭𝐫𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐡𝐢𝐝𝐞.

Because the opinion of others will no longer matter and that’s when you will attract the cherry (aka your love interest) on top of your cake too 🍒

Now, what will keep your relationship with that decoration firm and solid is your sponge (aka you) that needs to first be whipped and baked to have the right density 🥣 🍞

It’s not that hard to do provided you know HOW to whip and bake the exact ingredients you already carry within you.

This is where I come in . . .

As my best skill is listening and uncovering your ingredients so that you can embrace them and let your confidence rise🔝🔝🔝

We then add the icing (which is nothing else than healthy ways of relating) and voila, it all comes together 🍰

So in other words, what a collaboration with me does is helping you uncover HOW to love in an emotionally open and conscious way.

Because if we’re to face the truth, love is not about bells on carriages and a wedding ring.

𝐋𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐞 𝐥𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐧𝐞𝐫 𝐦𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐛𝐞 𝐠𝐨𝐨𝐟𝐲 𝐨𝐫 𝐧𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐨𝐰 𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐝 𝐚𝐭 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞𝐬, 𝐛𝐮𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐡𝐢𝐦 𝐨𝐫 𝐡𝐞𝐫.

Hopelessly romantic
And a conscious peacemaker!

Call me a Teacher of Courageous Love
Eleni

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P.S. Interested in finding out more about how you can turn around your love story with only a few actionable steps? DM me for a free chat.

16/07/2024

The face of my client when his beautiful wife got it that she was mothering him.

Utter joy!! Recognizing that THIS time he wasn’t the one at fault 😉

And the grace with which his wife accepted that and smiled 🙌

𝐒𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐠𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐟𝐮𝐥 𝐭𝐨 𝐟𝐢𝐧𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐬𝐞𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐨𝐥𝐞 𝐮𝐧𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐭𝐡𝐲 𝐝𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐇𝐎𝐖 𝐬𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐩𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐛𝐲 𝐭𝐫𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐫𝐨𝐥 𝐡𝐢𝐦.

💞 The humour, the love, the understanding . . . priceless.

The humility and admitting that this one IS on you, and you can do better from now on;

That is awe inspiring ✌️

There was a reason I did not watch the Euro final on Sunday night 🥅

𝐁𝐞𝐜𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞’𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐛𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐧 𝐛𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝟐 𝐡𝐮𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐬 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐨 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐡 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐜𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐥𝐲.

For that I’m eternally grateful 🙏

Us humans are a gorgeous species when we let go of self-righteousness.

That’s what I call FREE to love & to be seen ❤️‍🔥

06/07/2024

THE REASONS SELF-ACCEPTANCE DOESN’T ALWAYS WORK
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𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐛𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐚𝐬𝐬𝐞𝐭.

You probably heard this before and you might feel this is cheesy.

Because deep down you may often feel less than others.

👉 This is why you bought that dress when your family belittled you as soon as you started gaining some weight.

That dress was like your life vest in the rough sea of rejection from the very same people who were supposed to understand you.

👉 This is also why you looked the other way when you bumped into him at the supermarket.

You were NOT about to engage in any conversation with the same man who two-timed you.

Ouch! And he thought you wouldn’t find out, right?

𝐃𝐞𝐞𝐩 𝐝𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥 𝐡𝐮𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐯𝐚𝐥𝐮𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐫𝐞𝐜𝐨𝐠𝐧𝐢𝐬𝐞𝐝.

And if you hear one more time that you need to start valuing yourself first, you are going to lose it.

Right now, you just want compassion 💓💓💓

♦ Because when you’re told to start valuing yourself, all you can think about is HOW broken you must be not to be able to value your own self already.

♦ And if you already devalue yourself because you show up in a way that doesn’t meet your standards, how can you practice self-acceptance?

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐦𝐨𝐬𝐭 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐳𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐭𝐫𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐩𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐞 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐚𝐜𝐜𝐞𝐩𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞 (𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐝𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭) 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐛𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐧 𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐦𝐞 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬.

👎 Feeling as if you have to settle and accept a self that is not amazing after all.

👎 Sprinkle a little bit of perfectionism too and your acceptance of self is going south.

𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐭𝐡 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐟𝐢𝐫𝐬𝐭 𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐩 𝐭𝐨 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐬𝐨 𝐦𝐮𝐜𝐡 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐚𝐜𝐜𝐞𝐩𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞, 𝐛𝐮𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐠𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐲.

In fact, trying to accept yourself without integrity, is like trying to turn yourself into this super hero (which you are not) and then venture out there to date normal mortals.

🤷‍♀️ Nobody is ever going to be good enough for the superhero you

Sounds familiar? Ever complained about all the horrible dates you just had?

(𝐿𝑒𝑡 𝑚𝑒 𝑐𝑙𝑎𝑟𝑖𝑓𝑦 𝐼’𝑚 𝑛𝑜𝑡 𝑠𝑎𝑦𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑤𝑒𝑟𝑒 𝑛𝑜𝑡 𝑗𝑢𝑠𝑡𝑖𝑓𝑖𝑒𝑑 ℎ𝑒𝑟𝑒.

𝐵𝑈𝑇, 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑑𝑜 𝑎𝑡𝑡𝑟𝑎𝑐𝑡 𝑤ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑒𝑥𝑝𝑒𝑐𝑡 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑖𝑓 𝑦𝑜𝑢’𝑟𝑒 𝑎 𝑠𝑢𝑝𝑒𝑟 ℎ𝑒𝑟𝑜 𝑖𝑛 𝑦𝑜𝑢𝑟 𝑖𝑚𝑎𝑔𝑖𝑛𝑎𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛, 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑤𝑖𝑙𝑙 𝑛𝑒𝑒𝑑 𝑎 𝑙𝑜𝑤 𝑚𝑜𝑟𝑡𝑎𝑙 𝑡𝑜 𝑐𝑜𝑛𝑓𝑖𝑟𝑚 𝑦𝑜𝑢𝑟 𝑠𝑢𝑝𝑒𝑟𝑖𝑜𝑟 𝑠𝑡𝑎𝑡𝑢𝑠 𝑡𝑜𝑜 . . . 𝐹𝑜𝑜𝑑 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑡ℎ𝑜𝑢𝑔ℎ𝑡)

Now back to the point

𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐚𝐮𝐭𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐠𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐲, 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐮𝐩 𝐚𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐚𝐥 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐚𝐜𝐜𝐞𝐩𝐭𝐬 𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐟𝐮𝐥𝐥𝐲 (𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐚𝐧𝐲 𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐦𝐞) 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐓𝐇𝐀𝐓 𝐢𝐬 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐧 𝐡𝐚𝐥𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐛𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐥𝐞 𝐰𝐨𝐧.

It’s the kind of game that leads to true intimacy and the game I invite you to take.

Want to understand more?
Send me a DM and let’s have a chat about it.

𝐸𝑙𝑒𝑛𝑖 :)

Eleni Kouloumou - Devotional Love & Soft Power Coach

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