
06/07/2025
A little bandage changed everything but what about the things we can’t see? 👇
A few months ago I sustained a secondary degree burn on my hand and the response was immediate:
“Are you okay?”
“Do you need help?”
“Let me take care of that for you.”
And honestly it felt so good to be supported.
But it also made me reflect…
I live with hEDS and chronic symptoms that most people can’t see such as joint pain, fatigue, migraines, brain fog. Things that don’t always come with a cast or a bandage.
Sometimes we forget how much easier it is to offer care when there’s something tangible in front of us. But invisible things matter too.
✨ For anyone living with invisible illness:
✅ You are not making it up.
✅ You don’t need visible proof to deserve care.
✅ You’re allowed to ask for help even without a bandage.
Let’s keep building awareness not out of blame or from a victim mentality but from a place of connection and curiosity.
💬 Have you ever experienced this contrast? I’d love to hear your thoughts.