23/11/2025
Welcome back to Day 2 of the Magnetic Reset!
I’m so happy you’re here again. By showing up tonight, you’re proving something to yourself: when you decide, you do. And that’s exactly the energy we’re anchoring this week.
Last night, we talked about procrastination and guilt — and how they are not proof that you’re broken, but signals that a younger version of you was trying to keep you safe. Tonight, we’re going deeper. Because underneath procrastination… underneath guilt… are the beliefs that have been quietly shaping your entire life.
And here’s the first truth I want you to hear:
👉 Beliefs aren’t facts.
They’re decisions your younger self made once — usually in a moment of pain, rejection, or fear. Maybe someone told you you weren’t good enough. Maybe you failed at something and decided ‘I can’t be trusted to follow through.’ Maybe someone laughed at you, and you believed you weren’t capable.
But those beliefs? They don’t belong to the you sitting here today. Tonight, we’re going to meet the younger version of you who first picked up that belief — and we’re going to set them free.
Now let’s land some truths — 5 shifts that I promise will change the way you see yourself forever:
✨ AHA Moment #1: Beliefs are not chosen with logic — they’re chosen with survival.
You didn’t consciously decide to believe you weren’t enough. You absorbed it as a way to protect yourself. A child can’t say, ‘That comment my teacher made wasn’t about me.’ No — a child says, ‘If they said it, it must be true.’
And here’s the shift: if you didn’t choose those beliefs consciously, you can consciously choose again now.
✨ AHA Moment #2: Your beliefs are not who you are — they are who you thought you had to be.
Every belief you carry was once a strategy. ‘I’m not good enough’ might have been a way to stay small so you wouldn’t be criticized. ‘I can’t trust myself’ might have been a way to avoid disappointment.
But the truth is → beliefs are just costumes. They don’t define you. They only covered you up.
✨ AHA Moment #3: Your brain is always looking for proof of what you believe.
If you believe you’re a failure, your brain will collect every piece of evidence to prove it right. Miss a deadline? See, I fail. Forget to call someone? See, I can’t be trusted.
But the opposite is also true. Shift the belief → and suddenly your brain starts collecting proof of your strength, your wins, your resilience. You literally rewire the way you experience your life.
✨ AHA Moment #4: Beliefs create behavior, not the other way around.
Most people try to ‘fix’ their behavior — work harder, be more disciplined, stay motivated. But behavior flows from belief. If you secretly believe ‘I’ll never succeed,’ why would you keep trying? If you believe ‘I’m not capable,’ of course you’ll hesitate.
When you change the root belief, your behavior changes naturally. Without forcing. Without hustling. Without shame.
✨ AHA Moment #5: The beliefs you outgrew are still running your life — until you release them.
You’re not 7 anymore. You’re not 14. You’re not that child, teen, or young adult who first picked up the story that you’re not enough, not capable, not safe. But unless you go back and free that younger version of you, their voice is still echoing inside you.
And that’s what we’re going to do tonight — we’re going to meet them, we’re going to tell them the truth, and we’re going to set them free.
So let’s take this with us as we move into tonight’s healing session:
Beliefs are not facts.
Beliefs are not who you are.
Beliefs shape the reality you experience.
Behavior flows from belief, not effort.
And you are free to choose again.
Take a deep breath with me now… let that truth settle into your body. Because in a moment, you’re going to meet the exact version of yourself who needs to hear it most.”
✍️ Pre-Session Journal Reflection
What belief do I keep repeating to myself that holds me back?
When do I remember first feeling this was true about me?
How has this belief shaped the way I show up?
✍️ Post-Session Journaling
What did my younger self show me today?
What belief did I release?
What belief am I choosing to hold moving forward?
How will my actions shift now that I carry this new truth?