11/12/2025
I was excited about birth… but all so heard was horror stories!
I don’t think we talk enough about how much the stories around us shape the way we imagine birth.
Most of us grow up only hearing the dramatic versions — the fear, the pain, the “just get through it.”
And it quietly becomes the default narrative… even when our bodies are capable of so much more.
When I finally started finding positive stories, something shifted.
Not because they were “perfect,” but because they reminded me that birth doesn’t have to be scary to be real.
If anything, the most powerful stories are the ones told honestly — without fear leading the way.
But yet, we have to go out of our way to find anyone willing to tell a positive story.
And it still makes me wonder…
Why do the fear-filled stories spread faster than the powerful ones?
What do you wish someone had told you about pregnancy or birth?
If you want more honest, uplifting perspectives — and ways to feel grounded and strong — my page is full of them. 💛