Behind The Sm;le

Behind The Sm;le CIO CEO18156 Charity No;1184343 To others he was known for his big smile and caring nature. On Saturday the 25th August 2018 he ended his life.

A charity in memory of our son, to support those with mental ill - health, those bereaved by suicide and campaign for equal rights and better mental health care for all. Our son, William Zacharia Pritchard, known to everyone as Zac, struggled with his mental health for many years whilst trying to cope with the stresses of everyday life, he did not feel able to be open about it due to fear of stigma / exclusion, only those close to him knew what he was really going through. We looked for support for him in our area of Worcester and there wasn't any. We then found out there was no support in our area for those affected by suicide bereavement. When someone dies by suicide, those who are left behind are left with the shock and devastation of losing their loved one. Death by suicide can be different to that of a death where you have the chance to say goodbye, as you are not given that opportunity, you are also left with lots of unanswered questions. If the death is at home you will have the house sectioned off and not allowed to be there until the investigations are completed. There are police statements to be made, if other authorities are involved such as the mental health teams there is internal investigations to be heard. There is also the inquest to be heard, which maybe weeks, months after the death and can be another traumatic experience. Being through this unfortunate experience we want to support others and carry them through the awful shocking and traumatic journey, as there is very little support around. To create a meaningful legacy from Zac’s untimely passing we set up this charity to provide information and practical support for people with mental health issues, linking in with the LGBTQ+ community, where possible and for those affected by suicide. Zac felt strongly about diversity and equal rights for all, he identified as gay himself and in line with his values we will aim to support all who reach out to us, especially those with mental ill-health. Our starting point has been setting up peer support groups, for those with poor mental health. We also aim to campaign for better mental health services for all. About Zac;

Zac was 29-year-old, he graduated in 2017 from the university of Worcester where he was a student trustee and a student union diversity officer, among other things. He was passionate about politics and an active Labour supporter; he spoke at various conferences including a TUC conference on LGBTQ+ rights. Zac was not always comfortable with being gay but he embraced it and was part of the LGBTQ+ network, he attended many rallies including Pride and other union marches,
During his time at university he volunteered for various organisations including the homeless and spent most of the last few years working in the care sector in nursing / care homes.Zac always wanted to help others in work and in life, so helping others and helping to overcome the stigma associated with mental health issues and supporting those in a similar situation, will honour his memory. We found a lot of people, like Zac, hide behind the stigma of mental health and put on a smile to the outside world, whilst battling inside, so until you get to know the real person you don't always know whats going on Behind the Smile............ hence the charity name;

09/12/2025
05/12/2025

Friday morning Poem.

Still I Rise
BY MAYA ANGELOU

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You may write me down in history
With your bitter, twisted lies,
You may trod me in the very dirt
But still, like dust, I'll rise.

Does my sassiness upset you?
Why are you beset with gloom?
’Cause I walk like I've got oil wells
Pumping in my living room.

Just like moons and like suns,
With the certainty of tides,
Just like hopes springing high,
Still I'll rise.

Did you want to see me broken?
Bowed head and lowered eyes?
Shoulders falling down like teardrops,
Weakened by my soulful cries?

Does my haughtiness offend you?
Don't you take it awful hard
’Cause I laugh like I've got gold mines
Diggin’ in my own backyard.

You may shoot me with your words,
You may cut me with your eyes,
You may kill me with your hatefulness,
But still, like air, I’ll rise.

Does my sexiness upset you?
Does it come as a surprise
That I dance like I've got diamonds
At the meeting of my thighs?

Out of the huts of history’s shame
I rise
Up from a past that’s rooted in pain
I rise
I'm a black ocean, leaping and wide,
Welling and swelling I bear in the tide.

Leaving behind nights of terror and fear
I rise
Into a daybreak that’s wondrously clear
I rise
Bringing the gifts that my ancestors gave,
I am the dream and the hope of the slave.
I rise
I rise
I rise.

Team effort this morning putting together the Behind The Smile Christmas Tree in the Marquee area of the cathedral   🎄 🦋...
03/12/2025

Team effort this morning putting together the Behind The Smile Christmas Tree in the Marquee area of the cathedral 🎄 🦋

Make sure you come and visit and share your tree selfies 😊 📷

“Are you okay?”No… no, I’m really not. Not even close. I feel this heavy weight sitting on me every day, like I’m trying...
02/12/2025

“Are you okay?”

No… no, I’m really not. Not even close. I feel this heavy weight sitting on me every day, like I’m trying to breathe through water. I’m depressed, and the anxiety never seems to loosen its grip. My biggest fear—maybe the one that drives everything—is rejection. It’s always there, whispering that if I open up, if I show someone what’s really going on inside, they’ll pull away.

I want to tell someone everything. I want to spill out the truth I keep shoving down. I want someone to hold me, to tell me that I’m not breaking apart, that things will eventually be okay. I crave that moment of feeling understood, even just for a second.

But then the fear hits. What if I tell you and you think it’s too much? What if you think I’m being dramatic, or just trying to get attention? That thought traps the words inside my throat before they ever reach the air.

So instead, I swallow everything down, force a small smile, and say the safe thing—the thing people expect to hear.

“I’m fine, just tired. Thanks though.”

Inspirational
02/12/2025

Inspirational

Tomorrow we have our crafternoon! Come craft and have a natter. We will be over by loves grove in Worcester just up the ...
01/12/2025

Tomorrow we have our crafternoon! Come craft and have a natter. We will be over by loves grove in Worcester just up the road from the Worcester racecourse.

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