07/02/2021
Very fortunate to be an official provider for ACE and to be working with such a great team!!
To finish our birthday celebrations ACE is very proud to announce that we have become the first regional adoption agency in the world to be certified as a Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy service. We are only the fourth place in the world to become certified so this is a significant achievement for us and the families we support.
ACE is committed to providing a wide range of support services to meet the needs of adoptive families, and recognises that this support may be provided from the following:
· Family - support provided within relationship, friends and family, community network
· ACE - ACE staff who are committed to working in a Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy ( DDP) informed way and provide support groups, young people’s group, Space to talk service, single adopters group, the Therapeutic Team providing therapeutic parenting training informed by PACE, training for friends and family
· Specialised services - relationship with therapeutic providers
· Universal services - relationships with Education, Health, Children’s Services and CAMHS.
This commitment has developed as we have worked to ensure that the ‘thread’ of DDP principles runs throughout all the support and services provided. This is because we have deepened our understanding of the need to help parents understand and be able to parent in ways that build safety and security.
Helping parents start to implement DDP begins in the way that we relate and respond to prospective adopters and adoptive parents. We have worked to emphasise the importance of ACE workers giving adopters a first-hand experience of an emotionally regulated, reflective and safe relationship. We now seek to model the attitude of PACE, rather than teach or promote the idea of it. ACE workers understand that that these are the sorts of relationship qualities that are associated with secure attachment and that how we interact and relate to adopters can influence the way they relate to their children.
ACE workers have learned that if they can work with adopters in this way it should help them to feel more trusting of ACE, help them share/manage the pressures and stresses that they are facing, help them become more open and able to engage with ideas, support and services aimed at helping them bring DDP principles into their parenting. ACE workers aim to help adoptive parents retain empathy and remain open and receptive to the ‘hidden’ needs of their child so that relationships are strengthened, and a child’s developmental/ trauma needs might be addressed day-to-day. Workers have come to understand that to achieve this, our support services need to begin with empathically understanding the adopter’s experience and the impact that the child (or indeed the adoption process) is having on them.
ACE provides a range of support services aimed at helping parents bring DDP into their parenting. These concepts and ideas are introduced early in the adoption process through the preparation groups, the assessment and matching process and continues through post order support.
If you are interested in attending our therapeutic parenting courses which are DDP informed please contact the ACE team on 0300 369 0556