
25/07/2025
Did you know there are 4 types of holiday-makers – and they can all (lovingly) drive each other mad?! 😅
I’m writing this from sunny Mallorca… where I definitely shouldn’t be working…
But I couldn’t resist sharing this:
If your summer trip has had a few tense moments… you’re not alone.
Holidays are meant to be relaxing, but with different personalities, budgets, age groups, expectations, and travel stress often all swirling together – it’s no wonder they can feel anything but calm at times!
Here’s a quick “Holiday Survival Guide” based on the 4 colour personality types I use in my Strengths Unlocked system:
Which one sounds most like you?!
🔵 The Planner (Blue)
Wants an itinerary. Asks “What exactly are we doing and when?”
Last-minute changes cause mild panic!
🔴 The Go-Getter (Red)
Wants to do everything! Activity booker, day trip planner, mission to make the most of every minute.
Lie-ins are a waste of time!
🟡 The Socialiser (Yellow)
Wants shared fun. Doesn’t mind what’s happening as long as everyone’s getting along and doing it together, probably makes new friends on every holiday!
FOMO is real!
🟢 The Chiller (Green)
Wants to go with the flow. No plans, no stress. Trusts it’ll all work out.
Rigid schedules, no thanks!
💡So what happens when you mix all four on one trip…?
Yep, exactly! 😅
But it doesn’t have to end in chaos!
Here are my top 3 tips for holiday harmony:
1️⃣ Know your colour – Planner, Go-Getter, Socialiser or Chiller – and share what matters to you on holiday and why.
2️⃣ Understand who you’re travelling with – what might they need to enjoy the trip?
3️⃣ Rotate the ‘lead’ – each person gets a day to set the tone. One day full-on activities, the next totally chilled, the next centred around fun with everyone.
Most importantly – remember the point is to find the moments of calm, connection & celebration - and enjoy it!
Whether you’re abroad or doing a staycation, here’s to making memories, laughing through the bumps, and honouring what helps you recharge.
🌴 Now back to the beach… (or at least trying not to overanalyse the family dynamics at dinner 😂)
Which one are you? And who or what do you enjoy the most or stresses you out the most on holiday?!