15/12/2025
Anxiety about aging often shows up quietly—through fear of time passing, changes in identity, and questions about meaning and purpose.
Birthdays can amplify this anxiety. They invite reflection, sometimes before we feel ready. In response, many of us lean on deflection—staying busy, joking, minimizing, or avoiding the deeper emotions that aging can bring up. These strategies once helped us cope, but they can also keep us disconnected from ourselves.
In today’s video, I talk about anxiety around aging, how birthdays can surface it, and how noticing our coping strategies can open space for reflection, meaning, and self-compassion as we move through different seasons of life.
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