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ALL EARS we seek to help couples, intending couples and those dating with their teaming relationship issues.

17/08/2024

Nobody likes hard times, but it's the unpleasant experiences that are often the catalysts to build the character required for our destiny.

16/08/2024

Wives, ask any man, and he will tell you that there is nothing as frustrating, exhausting, and disheartening as living with a negative, contentious, critical, or quarrelsome wife. In marriage, it's natural for couples to encounter moments of tension and disagreements, but experiencing marriage with a woman whose default disposition is negative and sharp-tongued is equivalent to living in hell. This applies to men as well; husbands who display these traits can also make the home environment unpleasant and challenging. The Bible speaks to this in Proverbs 25:24, "It is better to live in a corner of the housetop than in a house shared with a quarrelsome wife." The temperament of a wife sets the temperature of the home. Therefore, every wife must cultivate a spirit of warmth, gentleness, understanding, pleasantness, peace, and patience within the home and marriage. When conflicts arise, it's crucial to choose your battles wisely and respond with kindness and empathy. Seeking harmony and unity, even in challenging times, allows you to build a strong foundation of love and respect, making your home a haven of peace and joy for spouse and children. Remember, a happy and harmonious marriage is the result of intentional effort and understanding, fostering a loving and nurturing environment for everyone in the home.

04/05/2024

"A man settles where he finds peace, not beauty, money or status BUT peace!"

04/04/2024

Marriage is Not a walk in the Park: Marriage is not for quitters who are always ready to run and give up at the sight of problems. Yes, marriage is beautiful but its beauty can only be enjoyed by those that are willing to endure. It takes hard work, sacrifice, and a deep commitment to love each other through the ups and downs of life. It's important for each spouse to actively listen, communicate effectively, and prioritize each other. When difficulties arise in marriage, it's essential to lean on your faith, seek guidance from trusted sources, and never give up on the promises you made to each other on your wedding day - to love and cherish each other until death do you part. Remember that a strong marriage is built on a foundation of mutual respect, trust, and a steadfast commitment not to give up on each other, especially in difficult moments. It gets greater later. It often gets bitter before it gets better.

29/03/2024

The Christian pilgrim must be watchful over his thoughts, speech, the places he goes, the books he reads, the friends he keeps. He must be watchful in times of success and failure, encouragement and discouragement, happiness and sadness; in times of relaxation and in times of victory.

17/03/2024

Many marriages suffer because spouses are holding on to past mistakes, past failures, past disappointments, past heartbreaks, past rejections & past relationships. You cannot revisit the past & undo the hurtful wrong that happened. You cannot unwind the hands of time. You cannot erase the scars. But you can choose to forgive, trust God & move on. No marriage can ever see a better future without letting go of the past. Every marriage has some degree of regrettable past. But the successfully married practice daily forgiveness on the altar of prayer. Don’t build a monument of your spouse’s past sin in your heart & when you’re wrong don’t be too proud to apologize. Give your marriage a new breath of life. Today; let-go & forgive your spouse for everything in the past. “Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.” Ephesians 4:32. Yes, You can do it.

13/03/2024

True love says, "You may disappoint me, frustrate me, and annoy me, but I choose to love you, respect you, and care for you anyway. True love is, "for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part."

The Difference Between Love and Infatuation: In the journey of marriage, it's crucial to distinguish between love and in...
17/08/2023

The Difference Between Love and Infatuation: In the journey of marriage, it's crucial to distinguish between love and infatuation. Infatuation can be intense and fleeting, rooted in feelings that often waver with time. True love, on the other hand, stands firm through the highs and lows, transcending mere emotions. As 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 reminds us, "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonour others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, and it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres." This biblical wisdom reveals that love is selfless, enduring, and steadfast, a foundation on which a lasting marriage can flourish. When we root our relationships in the agape love described in these verses, we build a bond that can weather any storm, demonstrating the depth of God's love for us in our unions.

13/07/2023

Most extramarital s*xual encounters are preceded by improper friendships and emotional intimacy with individuals of the opposite s*x. Cheating is not an isolated event but rather a process that begins with an inappropriate incident or a series of incidents. During this process, a person willingly, knowingly, and intentionally engages in selfish and shameless behaviour, fully aware of the potential harm it can cause to their spouse, marriage, and family. To protect the sanctity of marriage, each spouse must have a reverential fear of God and show honour and respect to their partner and the marital bond. This can be achieved by strictly avoiding all friendships and inappropriate emotional connections with individuals of the opposite s*x. It is crucial to establish and uphold boundaries, severing all inappropriate ties. This may involve unfriending people, blocking or deleting their contact information, and actively distancing oneself from any situation that could lead to impropriety. In the words of Genesis 2:24, "The two shall become one flesh." It serves as a reminder of the unity and sacredness of the marital union. By adhering to these principles, couples can safeguard their marriages and preserve the trust and commitment between them.

12/07/2023

Friends will come and go, children will grow up and leave, work associates will move, and neighbours will relocate. But your spouse will remain in your life till death separate you. Therefore, make a solid commitment to never become so focused on temporary relationships that you lose your spouse, marriage, and family in the process. Nothing and no one, except God, is worth losing your spouse and marriage for.

06/07/2023

Marriage is not for the show. It does not matter what outsiders think about your marriage. Only God is the sole audience of your marriage. Some couples go out of their way to improve the cosmetic appearances of their marriages to impress outsiders while inwardly their marriages are falling apart. While extravagant weddings and anniversaries, expensive gifts, and exotic vacations may impress outsiders, they don't add value to marriage. More often than not, they leave couples buried under insurmountable debt and unbearable stress. The most important things in life that add value to your marriage are free, and these are unconditional love, respect, courtesy, submission, affection, intimacy, honesty, companionship, commitment, and admiration. Turn your eyes away from people and purpose together to apply these simple and free divine marriage principles and watch God turn your marriage into a happy, healthy, satisfying, and long-lasting holy union.

30/06/2023

Genuine Love is Not a Feeling; it is a conscious decision to selflessly serve and sacrificially care for someone, regardless of how you feel. True love is not a reward for good behavior, nor is it contingent upon someone meeting your expectations or doing something pleasant to you. True love is an undeserved gift that is given without expecting anything in return. It cannot be withdrawn or withheld as punishment for bad behavior. True love is inexhaustible, growing and developing through disappointments and disagreements. Even in the face of adultery and physical abuse, when living together becomes impossible and separation becomes inevitable, genuine love does not end; it simply chooses to love from a distance. "God is Love.” (1 John 4:8). Therefore, draw love from God's ever-flowing fountain that never runs dry. God is calling you to be a conduit of His love to those around you, especially your spouse. Do you hear His voice, and what is your response?"

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