Young Couples Therapy

28/11/2025

A good marriage takes high level of patience and understanding from the man and woman who are willing to make it work. One partner will only get exhausted when there's no support.

21/11/2025

💞 Bedroom Recipe: “Confession Night” 💞

Ingredients:

1 quiet evening with phones aside

A warm, reassuring tone

1 honest confession (spoken with humility, not fear)

1 listening heart from your spouse

A gentle touch to keep the moment safe

A short prayer asking God for unity

Directions:
Set the room in calm silence. Start by appreciating your spouse, then confess what has been on your heart — not to accuse, but to clear the air. Let honesty melt the tension. After the confession, hold each other for a moment and speak words of reassurance. End with a prayer, committing your marriage to God’s truth and peace.

Scripture Spice:
“Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed.” – James 5:16 💖

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21/11/2025

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21/11/2025

💞 Couples’ Corner: “When Pride Almost Won” 💞

Kojo loved Ama, but everyone knew Kojo had one flaw — arrogance.
He liked being right. He liked making the final decision. And he never liked apologizing.

One Saturday, they were preparing for a family gathering. Ama suggested they take a different route because of traffic. Kojo brushed it off.
“I know this road better than you,” he said, waving his hand with confidence.

Two hours later, they were still stuck in bumper-to-bumper traffic.
Ama sat quietly. Kojo’s pride sat loudly.

When they finally arrived, tired and annoyed, Kojo realized something:
His arrogance didn’t just slow their journey — it was slowing their marriage.

Later that night, Kojo took Ama’s hand and whispered,
“I’ve been leading with pride instead of love. I’m sorry.”

Ama smiled, not because she wanted to be right, but because she wanted them to be right.

From that day, Kojo started listening more, softening his tone, and choosing humility over ego. Their marriage didn’t become perfect, but it became peaceful.

📖 “Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall.” — Proverbs 16:18

❤️ Lesson: Arrogance builds distance. Humility builds home.

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19/11/2025

💞 Couples’ Corner: “Staying Connected While Apart” 💞

When both partners leave home for work, the hours can pass quickly — meetings, deadlines, and noise pulling your attention in every direction. But even in the busiest day, a gentle reminder that “I’m thinking of you” can soften the stress and strengthen the bond.

A simple voice note…
A quick text saying “How’s your day?”…
Sharing a meme that will make them smile…
Or a short prayer you whisper for them at your desk…

These little touches are not small — they are love deposits that keep the connection warm until you’re back home together.

Make it a habit:
✨ Check in once before lunch
✨ Send encouragement when the day gets tough
✨ End the day with gratitude for each other

Because love isn’t only built at home — it grows through the thoughtful moments we plant throughout the day.

“Let all that you do be done in love.” — 1 Corinthians 16:14 💛

18/11/2025

💞COUPLES’ CORNER — “The Day Yaw Decided to Walk Away Instead of Explode”💞

Esi loved Yaw, but she feared one thing about him—his temper.
He had never hit her, but when he got angry, he shouted, slammed doors, and spoke words that burned deeper than any slap.

One Saturday, after a misunderstanding about money, the argument grew quickly.
Yaw felt the anger racing in his chest.
Esi felt the tears coming.
Both of them stood on a dangerous edge.

In that moment, Yaw remembered something their pastor had said:
“The strongest man is not the one who fights—he is the one who controls himself.”

Yaw looked at Esi, trembling, and made a single decision that prevented a lifetime of regret:
He walked outside.
He didn’t storm out.
He didn’t shout.
He stepped out to breathe, pray, and calm down.

That one choice broke the cycle he had inherited from his father.
It taught Esi something too—that walking away to calm down is not disrespectful; it is responsible love.

Later that evening, Yaw returned, sat beside her, and said softly:
“Esi, I don’t want anger to lead my home. Let’s learn better.”

They began practicing three tools:

1. The 20-minute cool-off rule
When emotions rise, they pause, separate briefly, and return to talk with calmer hearts.

2. Respectful language only
No name-calling. No shouting. No insults—even in anger.

3. Prayer before discussion
They pray together for patience, wisdom, and gentleness before touching difficult issues.

Over time, their home transformed.
What could have turned into emotional or physical violence became an opportunity for growth.
Their marriage became safer, softer, and more peaceful.

Esi often tells young wives:
“Violence is prevented long before it appears. It starts with choosing peace over pride.”

Yaw tells young husbands:
“Strength is not in the fist—it is in the spirit.”

📖 Scripture Caption:

“A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” — Proverbs 15:1

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16/11/2025

💞 Bedroom Recipe: “The Sunday Night Sweet Start” 💞

Ingredients:

Freshly showered bodies (clean and comfy)

1 slow cuddle session

3 soft compliments about each other

A warm oil or lotion for gentle back rubs

A shared weekly goal

A quiet moment with God

Preparation:
Slip into clean sheets and take a moment to admire each other — speak three soft compliments, one for the heart, one for the mind, and one for the body.
Give each other gentle back rubs, not to fix pain, just to soothe and relax.
Share one goal you both want to achieve this week — big or small — and promise to support each other.

End with a calm prayer:
“Father, let this week bring peace, unity, and joy into our home. Keep our love tender and our hearts connected. Amen.”

A peaceful week starts with a peaceful night — together.

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15/11/2025

💞 Couples’ Corner: “The Little Things That Save Us” 💞

Mawuli and Esinam had been married just two years, but they had already discovered something important — it’s not the big arguments that weaken a marriage; it’s the tiny habits we ignore.

Mawuli was the “forgetful type.” He forgot where he put his keys, forgot to buy the bread Esinam asked for, and many times forgot to say, “Thank you.”
Esinam, on the other hand, held on to things. She remembered every forgotten key, every forgotten bread, and every forgotten “thank you.”

One evening, after another small misunderstanding over a misplaced charger, Esinam sighed, “Mawuli, these little things are wearing us down.”

Mawuli paused, looked at her carefully, and replied, “Then let me start fixing the little things — one by one. Just be patient with me.”

From the next morning, he did something simple but powerful.
When Esinam woke up, she found a sticky note on the mirror:
“Thank you for being patient with me. I love you.”

The next day:
“I remembered the bread today 😊.”

By the end of the week, the sticky notes had become their new love language. Esinam relaxed more. Mawuli tried harder. And somehow, the tiny conflicts that once created tension now created laughter.

Moral: Sometimes the smallest acts of effort speak louder than the biggest romantic gestures. Marriage grows when we choose kindness in the little moments.

Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.” — 1 Corinthians 13:7