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Compound of joy by Ronald, Tamale (2025)

07/09/2025

Listen up, Men!

When a woman starts giving unnecessary attitude, making excuses, asking for "a break," or suddenly becoming distant without explanation—pay attention. Stop overthinking, stop over-apologizing, and stop letting yourself be misled. Women are emotional beings, and when their behavior changes, there’s always a reason. Often, it’s a sign that her attention, loyalty, or respect has shifted elsewhere.

Here’s the truth: if you haven’t done anything wrong, her attitude isn’t about you—it’s about her choices. She might have cheated, is considering it, or has her focus on someone else. Women may not always hide their emotional changes well—the signs are usually there. You just need to be aware enough to spot them.

At this point, stop asking, "What’s going on?" or "What did I do wrong?" That’s weak energy, and it won’t help. When you beg for answers, you lose your power. Instead, step back. Remove yourself from the situation, observe quietly, and let her actions speak for themselves.

Men, understand this: a woman who respects you will communicate, not confuse you. If she’s giving attitude, making excuses, or pulling away, she’s already emotionally disconnected. Don’t chase what’s slipping away—maintain your dignity, stay true to yourself, and walk away if necessary.

You deserve loyalty, respect, and honesty. Never lower your standards or beg for someone who isn’t willing to offer the same. You’re a man—carry yourself as one. Stay sharp. Stay in control.

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07/09/2025

_never look in a man's phone even when you want to see time use the sun,this talk get why 😂_😂😂😂

07/09/2025

*AS YOU ARISE*

Some people want it to happen, some wish it would happen, others make it happen. Dreams don't work unless you take action. The surest way to make your dreams come true is to live them. When you do the things in the present, you are shaping the future that you are yet to see.

*Wishing you a wonderful weekend*

07/09/2025

I have never seen anyone rely on God and end up in shame. By His grace, you will finish this year in victory.

07/09/2025

Found myself smiling lately
God whatever you are doing for me l appreciate it.

30/08/2025

DEAR SON, YOUR MONEY IS YOUR YOUTH

Listen up, son.

If you’re reading this, I need you to pause.
Put the phone down.
Put the keys away.
Take a deep breath.

Because what I’m about to tell you — no one told me.
And I paid for it with my life.

You think money is just money.
A tool. A scorecard. A way to win her over.

But let me tell you something, son — your money is your youth.

Every coin you earn is traded for minutes you’ll never get back.
Every tab you clear is time you’ll never relive.
Every “let me spoil her” is energy you’ll wish you saved.

Don’t throw your youth into the fire of fast living.

A woman’s youth is in her body.
But a man’s youth?
It’s in his grind. His late nights. His early mornings. His relentless push to build a life worth living.

When you blow that paycheck to impress her, when you pour out your energy for a girl who sees you as a wallet — you’re not just losing money.
You’re losing yourself.

Don’t be the man who gives up gold for glitter.
Don’t spend your 20s pretending to be a king, only to wake up in your 40s a slave to regrets.

I know it feels good now.
The attention.
The parties.
The “bro, you killed it” moments.

But they fade.

And when they do?
The women leave.
The friends scatter.
And the bills don’t.

Let me be blunt.

Don’t sponsor a woman through school.
Don’t buy her a car.
Don’t pay her rent.

Not because you’re stingy — but because your future is expensive.

If she didn’t build with you, she shouldn’t eat with you.
You’re not her father.
You’re not her hero.
You’re the reward she’s trying to collect without ever playing the game.

I made that mistake.

I thought I could buy love.
Buy loyalty.
Buy a future.

What I got was used.
Left.
Replaced.

And when I cried for help?
The same boys I covered on broke nights.
The same girl I took from nothing to comfort.
Were nowhere to be found.

So hear me loud and clear.

Your youth is sacred.

Don’t waste it proving your worth to people who wouldn’t help you if you were drowning.

Use your strength to build.
Use your energy to grow.
Use your money to multiply.

And when the right woman sees you?
She won’t ask you to buy her anything.
She’ll ask how she can build with you.

A man doesn’t lose his youth in age.
He loses it in waste.

Waste on women who aren’t his.
Waste on nights that don’t count.
Waste on proving a point no one cares about.

So protect your wallet — because it holds your future.
Protect your time — because it holds your purpose.
And protect your youth — because once it’s gone, it’s gone.

Clear?

30/08/2025

HER PAST IS NOT JUST "THE PAST"

Men, listen carefully.
What she did before you matters. Don’t let society gaslight you into thinking history doesn’t shape the future. You’re not here to play stepdad to her bad decisions.

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1. A woman’s past is her resume — it tells you her discipline, her loyalty, her judgment. Ignore it, and you’ll pay the price.

2. High body count? That’s not “experience,” that’s baggage. Every man she gave herself to left a mark you can’t erase.

3. Single mother? Respect her grind, but understand: her child will always come before you. You’re not her king, you’re a replacement soldier.

4. Toxic ex-history? Don’t think you’ll be the exception. If she entertained chaos before, she’ll drag it into your home too.

5. Club-hopping, Instagram-thirst-trap phase? Don’t lie to yourself. That lifestyle doesn’t vanish overnight — it lingers like smoke on clothes.

6. If she lied to others, cheated, played games, or lived reckless, believe she’s capable of doing it again. Past behavior is the best predictor of future behavior.

7. Your legacy is on the line. You’re not marrying her body; you’re marrying her patterns.

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FINAL WARNING:

Don’t let love blind you. Don’t let lust silence your instincts. A woman’s past is not a footnote — it’s a blueprint of what life with her will look like. Respect yourself enough to choose wisely.

29/08/2025

LISTEN UP, MEN! GAMBLING IS CRIPPLING

You think you’re about to change your life with one lucky bet?
Nah, bro — you’re about to wreck it.

Gambling is the fastest way to stay broke while chasing the illusion of wealth.
It’s the shortcut that leads straight to the longest road of regret.
It’s the drug that feels like hope but always delivers disappointment.

I’ve seen strong men turn into beggars because of gambling.
I’ve seen fathers lose their family’s food money chasing a jackpot that never came.
I’ve seen young men with potential waste their time, energy, and last kobo on a dream that the house NEVER lets them win.

Let’s be real: The casino was not built for you to win.
The betting site does not exist to make YOU rich.
If that were the case, they’d be out of business.
The game is RIGGED, and you’re the willing victim.

Here are 4 brutal truths about gambling:

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1. THE HOUSE ALWAYS WINS

The odds are designed to keep you hooked, losing just enough to keep chasing.

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2. WINNING SMALL IS BAIT

You hit a small jackpot, and now you think you’re on fire.
Nah, bro, that’s the trap!
That’s the bait to make you think you can do it again.
But guess what? You’ll give it all back — and more.

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3. GAMBLING ISN’T ABOUT MONEY

It’s an addiction to hope.
You’re not gambling because you love money; you’re gambling because you love the feeling of maybe.
That “maybe” is a lie.
A very big lie.

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4. IT’S A TAX ON THE DESPERATE

The rich don’t gamble; they own the game.
The poor gamble, thinking they’ll get rich.
That’s why they stay poor.

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BRO, WAKE UP!

You don’t need a jackpot. You need discipline.
You don’t need luck. You need skills, strategy, and hard work.
You don’t need one big win. You need consistency.

A man who gambles is a man who has surrendered his power to chance.
A man who grinds, hustles, and builds? That man controls his destiny.

Instead of throwing money at games, throw it into books, courses, and businesses that actually make you money.
Learn sales, copywriting, tech, real estate, or any skill that guarantees returns.

Every rich man you admire built something over time.
If gambling worked, the world would be full of billionaires made from betting — but it’s not.

Every time you bet, you’re literally handing your hard-earned cash to someone who is already richer than you. Madness.
Betting sites make billions from the foolishness of men. Instead of funding them, become the guy who gets funded.

You were not born to be a slave to luck.
You were not created to hope for miracles while throwing away your resources.
You are stronger, wiser, and more capable than this.

Leave gambling to the weak and the lost.
Build yourself into a man that doesn’t need luck — because you create your own.
Comedian Counselor Roo

29/08/2025

MARRYING THE WRONG WOMAN WILL DESTROY YOU

Let’s talk about why more men are walking away from marriage.

Not because they hate women.
But because modern women are exhausting.

They don’t offer peace.
They offer pressure.

They don’t offer clarity.
They offer chaos.

And when a man is building a future, he doesn’t need another problem in his house.
He needs peace.

Let’s break it down:

1. MODERN WOMEN ARE A FULL-TIME JOB WITH NO PAYOFF

She wants your money, your time, your validation, your healing energy, your undivided attention.
Every coach says:
“Be emotionally available. Be soft. Be vulnerable. Be a better listener.”

Meanwhile…
She’s never quiet. Never still. Never satisfied.
You ask, “For what?”
To earn the privilege of spending your life performing emotional labor for someone who treats you like a tool?

That’s not marriage.
That’s modern slavery.

2. THEY WANT A HUSBAND BUT HATE MASCULINITY

She says she wants a strong man, a leader, a protector.
But when you lead? She resists.
When you decide? She debates.
When you correct? She attacks.

You’re either too cold, too harsh, too busy, too focused.
She wants you to show up as a man… only if you act like her emotional pet.

3. MODERN MARRIAGE IS A RITUAL OF SELF-HUMILIATION

Let’s be honest.
Men kneel with a ring that costs half their salary to beg a woman to spend his money, move into his home, inherit his name, and take half when she leaves.

And when she’s bored?
When she’s “finding herself”?
When she wants “alignment with her growth”?

She files for divorce.
You file for bankruptcy.

4. SHE’S DEMANDING IN EVERY DIMENSION AND GRATEFUL IN NONE

Emotionally, she needs therapy-level conversations daily.
Financially, she needs you to pay, spoil, surprise, and invest.
Spiritually, she wants you to “cover her”… but not correct her.

You’re not a partner to her.
You’re a self-help subscription with a wallet.

And when you finally need support?
She’ll say you’re “too much.”

5. DISTRACTION DESTROYS DISCIPLINE

You had plans.
You had structure.
You had ambition.

Then came the “where is this going?” texts, the endless calls, the jealousy over your work ethic, the fights over time and attention.

Now you’re still in love—but you’ve lost momentum.
Because a woman who doesn’t understand your mission will become your greatest distraction.

6. SHE DOESN’T WANT A MARRIAGE SHE WANTS A STAGE

She’s not building a home.
She’s building a brand.

Matching outfits. Couple content. Pinterest boards. Brunch dates. Anniversary photoshoots.

But the moment you’re unavailable, focused, or overwhelmed?
She plays the victim online.

You’re not her husband.
You’re her co-star.

7. THE MAN WHO MARRIES A DELUSIONAL WOMAN WILL LIVE IN EMOTIONAL DEBT

She thinks love is attention.
She thinks commitment is convenience.
She thinks respect is optional.

She’ll say she wants forever—but she’ll treat you like a phase.
And when she walks out?
She’ll say you “changed.”

No.
You woke up.

FINAL WORD: MARRY THE WOMAN WHO BRINGS PEACE, NOT PRESSURE

She’s loud in need but quiet in gratitude.
High in standards but low in support.
Quick to demand but slow to build.

And if you don’t meet her fantasy?
You’ll be blamed for her disappointment.

So here’s the truth:
Marriage is not for the distracting, demanding, or delusional woman.
It’s for the woman who brings peace, not pressure.
Understands mission, not just moments.
Helps build legacy, not collect memories.

Because a woman without clarity will crash your future.
And no matter how much you give?
She’ll always think she deserves more.

Choose wisely.
Your life isn’t a game.
Don’t play it with someone who thinks you’re the prize she’s sacrificing to accept.

29/08/2025

S*X IS A BLOOD COVENANT

Listen, brother.
S*x is not just pleasure. It is not “fun” or “casual.” It is a covenant — a transaction sealed in blood, with consequences that echo in your body, your spirit, and even your generations.

God designed s*x to be sacred. That’s why He placed blood at the very gate of a woman’s body. That blood is not an accident — it is a covenant marker. Break it, and you enter into a binding spiritual contract.

Here’s the brutal truth you need to hear:

1. S*x Is Never Just Physical
Every time you sleep with a woman, you tie your spirit to hers. You’re not just sharing a bed — you’re sharing destiny, baggage, and consequences.

2. The H***n Is Not Biology — It’s Covenant
That blood wasn’t random. It was placed as a token — a covenant. The man who breaks it seals a spiritual contract. That’s why first encounters leave permanent bonds that can’t be erased.

3. Casual S*x Makes You a Slave
Every woman you sleep with takes a piece of your strength. With every encounter outside of covenant, you lose virtue, focus, and destiny. That’s why many men can’t rise — their energy is scattered across beds that were never theirs.

4. You Inherit Spirits You Don’t See
Sleep with a harlot, you inherit her spirits. Sleep with a broken woman, you inherit her chaos. Sleep with another man’s wife, you inherit his curses. S*x is transfer — not just pleasure.

5. Broken Women = Broken Future
Many women carry the fragments of multiple covenants — men they were never meant to tie their souls to. When you join yourself to them, you inherit confusion, curses, and shattered destinies.

6. Your Bloodline Pays the Price
God said sin carries to the third and fourth generation. That one “harmless night” may cost your children battles you never won.

7. S*x Outside Marriage Is Self-Destruction
STIs, unplanned children, broken homes — that’s just the surface. The real destruction is invisible: scattered purpose, stolen focus, and destiny exchange.

8. The Devil Uses Women Without Cover
From the beginning, the enemy used a woman outside covenant as his weapon. Nothing has changed. Weak men still fall to unguarded temptation.

9. One Act Can Shatter Years
A single night of “fun” can bind you to battles you’ll fight for life. Your rise as a man depends on discipline — not appetite.

10. Purity Is Power
A man who guards his body guards his future. A man who respects covenant protects his destiny. Lose control, and you hand your life to the devil on a silver plate.

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FINAL WARNING:
S*x is not a game. It is blood. It is covenant. It is legacy. Stop scattering your life across women who were never yours. Guard yourself. Guard your seed. Guard your destiny.

A real man doesn’t chase pleasure — he builds legacy.

29/08/2025

MALE LEARNERS, PAY ATTENTION

Listen, brother.
The world doesn’t care about excuses. No one hands you respect, value, or purpose. You either take it — or you get crushed.

Here are 20 brutal truths every man must tattoo on his mind:

1. Respect yourself or you will be shown disrespect. Without respect you’re no longer a man — you’re a pawn.

2. Your image is your weapon. Train your body, dress with purpose, and move with intention. Confidence will follow.

3. Control your instincts. A man who controls his impulses controls his destiny. The rest are slaves to desire.

4. Stop expecting loyalty. Everyone is fighting a battle you don’t see.

5. If you make her the ultimate prize, she will look down on you. A king demands respect — he doesn’t beg.

6. The more you know about someone, the deeper the betrayal if they turn on you. Guard your trust.

7. They will laugh, doubt, and look down on you — until you win. Let results shut their mouths.

8. Sacrifice cheap pleasures today to build an empire tomorrow. Stability requires pain.

9. Weak men chase pleasure. Strong men chase purpose. Be the creator, not the consumer.

10. Never beg for love, respect, or attention. You earn it by standing as a man.

11. Time is currency. Don’t waste it on people who drain you.

12. Women smell weakness. Once she senses neediness, it’s over. Lead — don’t chase.

13. If she’s not afraid of losing you, you’ve already lost value. Be the man she fears to lose.

14. One mistake can destroy years in seconds. Plan smart. Move smarter.

15. Attraction is not begged for. If you have to ask, it’s already gone.

16. Mental strength is your responsibility. No saviors are coming. Fall, strategize, rise stronger.

17. Lower your standards, lose your crown. Guard your peace and purpose like treasure.

18. Pain teaches better than comfort ever will. Struggle shapes greatness.

19. Respect is earned, never handed out. Be the man others salute, not the one they pity.

20. A man with a mission is untouchable. Find your purpose. Hunt it down. Never let go.

FINAL WARNING:
Manhood is not about age — it’s about discipline, purpose, and self-respect. Without them, you’re just another pawn in the system.

24/08/2025

“BEING STINGY CAN SAVE YOUR LIFE”
(A thread for men who stopped simping and started winning)

Let them call you stingy.
Let them say you’re wicked.
Let them mock you for not “providing.”

But guess what?

The day you stopped sponsoring nonsense,
You started seeing clearly.
You started thinking straight.
You started winning.

1. SIMPING IS HOW MANY MEN BECAME BROKE, USED, AND DEPRESSED

You used to send money for wigs, food, airtime, and “urgent 2k.”
She said she loved you.
But the day your account ran dry, she moved to the next sponsor.

You weren’t a boyfriend.
You were a walking bank with emotions.

2. BEING STINGY EXPOSES WHO’S REALLY FOR YOU

The moment you stop spending, the real ones stay — the users disappear.
Suddenly, “I’m busy.”
Suddenly, “You’ve changed.”
Suddenly, “I don’t feel the connection anymore.”

No sis, it’s not connection you lost —
It’s your daily allowance.

3. STINGINESS TEACHES YOU DISCIPLINE

When you stopped giving anyhow,
You started saving more.
You started investing.
You started thinking long term.

Now you’re building something real,
Not just helping a woman maintain her slay life.

4. YOU OWE NOBODY A SOFT LIFE — ESPECIALLY NOT A LAZY WOMAN

You’re not her dad.
You’re not her sugar daddy.
You’re not a charity organization.

She wants to slay? Let her work.
She wants to flex? Let her hustle.

You’re not her source of income.

5. BEING STINGY FORCED YOU TO LEVEL UP

Because you stopped chasing girls,
You started chasing goals.
Now you’re growing.
You’re glowing.
You’re grinding in peace.

Funny how peace entered your life —
Right after you stopped sponsoring chaos.

6. EVERY TIME YOU SAID “NO” — YOU BOUGHT YOURSELF FREEDOM

No to random requests.
No to manipulative tears.
No to blackmail disguised as love.

That “NO” gave you time.
That “NO” gave you power.
That “NO” gave you life.

7. CALL IT STINGY. I CALL IT STRATEGIC.

Men are not ATMs.
Men are not emotional wastebins.
Men are not fools.

A woman who truly loves you won’t need constant funding to stay.
But a parasite will call you stingy when the free money stops.

FINAL WORD:

Being stingy didn’t make you less of a man.
It made you a man with sense.
It saved your money.
It saved your peace.
And most importantly —
It saved your destiny.

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