01/10/2021
I have been practicing Hawaiian lomi lomi or kahuna massage for about 9 months now. A few months ago, a friend of mine from London told me that she just had a lomi lomi massage from a man called Dan Joy and that it was one of the best massages in her life. She was raving about Dan's admirable caring attitude, full presence, unusually soothing touch, all of which provided for a very deep experience for her. She said that Dan will teach his approach to lomi lomi in a 1-week retreat in the Greek island Corfu in September. I knew I had to attend, I wanted to learn from Dan.
Dan's retreat was transformational for me in many ways! Not only did I have the opportunity to experience a taste of Dan's lomi lomi on myself, practice mutually with other participants, experience 4-handed and 6-handed massage. The retreat was much more than about lomi lomi. It was about the conscious inner connection with ourselves, conscious connection with others, with the essence of life. It was about how to be present and give the most caring attention to another person, how to use our hands in a loving and healing way. Dan taught me how to slow down in the massage strokes and slow down even more, to 'be' rather than to 'do'.
Dan often has tears in his eyes when he explains or when he massages. That's one more evidence of him being deeply connected with doing what he loves, with his mission much bigger than himself, to spread this present, conscious way of connecting, in the world. In the world that, in my opinion, now needs it more than ever. That's why I want to offer my conscious touch to those whom it can nourish, possibly heal or transform.
I got very much inspired from Dan and created for my clients a slow conscious massage with carefully selected music inspired by Dan's playlists. I decided to call it Massage Hará, to honour Dan's teachings, with Dan's permission. Χαρά means 'joy' in Greek and Dan's last name is Joy.
Thank you for everything you taught me, Dan Joy ! I will always think of you when I need to slow down and be more present and just be ❣️🙏