11/02/2025
When a girl isn’t getting the love she needs, she’s abandoning her feminine energy.
When she was little, she was waiting for love.
To a tender touch.
To soothing words.
Here's to a safe presence where she could relax, trust, and feel that she matters.
But the love didn't come.
Maybe the mother was cold, unattainable, demanding.
Maybe her father was absent, busy, strict.
Maybe no one taught her that her needs were important.
🥀 So she stopped waiting.
🥀 She closed her heart.
🥀 Instead of swimming with the current of life - she began to fight.
Because no one gave her love, she had to learn to cope alone.
She became strong. But it's a strength based on tension.
Her body turned into a tank.
Her heart - a fortress.
Instead of tenderness - control.
Instead of frankness - complacency.
She was there for others - but never for herself.
She achieved something - but nothing fulfilled her.
She worked, she acted, she gave - but she still felt empty.
Because instead of letting her feminine energy flow, she has armored herself with masculine energy.
She is the one who decides, controls, drives things, takes on more than she can handle.
She's the one who doesn't know how to ask for help because once she learned that no one will support her.
She is the one who only feels safe when she is in control of everything.
In relationships, she doesn't know how to relax, how to trust, how to accept love.
In a relationship, she often feels exhausted, frustrated and misunderstood.
Her body is under constant tension, as if something bad could happen at any moment.
And although she longs for love, tenderness and closeness, she unconsciously pushes them away.
Because her hunger for love made her an armored woman.
But it doesn't have to stay that way forever.
When she begins to satisfy her hunger for love from the inside out, something changes... When she deliberately turns to the little girl into her and gives him what she didn't get, the tension begins to drop.
She's relaxing.
She stops fighting.
She's learning to receive - not just give.
She's starting to feel like she doesn't have to control everything anymore.
And all of a sudden...
opens her heart to love and starting loving herself