10/04/2026
How many of you feel like time is running out?
Lately, I’ve had this quiet but persistent feeling in the background, that time is running out. Not in a dramatic way, not urgent in the obvious sense, but a subtle pressure, like I should be doing more, deciding faster, making things happen before it’s too late. It’s hard to explain, but it sits underneath everything.
Then I spoke to someone recently who said the exact same thing. That same feeling - that same sense of time slipping through their fingers.
It made me pause, because when something you thought was personal suddenly becomes shared, it often means there is something deeper going on.
I started looking into it — gently, out of curiosity rather than panic, what I found was unexpectedly reassuring. This feeling, this quiet urgency, this sense that time is running out is often linked to ADHD, especially later in life. It comes back to something called time blindness.
A brain that struggles to feel time in a steady, predictable way. A brain that can’t always judge how long things take. A brain that lives more in “now” and “not now” than in a smooth timeline.
Over time, this can build into something else, a kind of background pressure, feeling that you’ve missed something, that you’re behind, that there isn’t enough time to do what matters.
Not because it’s true — but because it feels true.
Why I need to understand it? Feelings, especially repeated ones, can quietly turn into anxiety if left unnamed. I’ve learnt something about myself over time. If I can understand the why, I can soften the impact. I can't fix it completely, not eliminate it, but change how I respond to it. Without awareness, it’s very easy for this feeling to spiral, turn into pressure, self-criticism and a constant sense of not doing enough.
When I recognise it for what it is, a pattern, a trait, a nervous system response — it begins to loosen its grip. It becomes something I can meet with awareness instead of fear.
Over the next few weeks, I’m going to gently explore ways to shift my thinking. I’d love to hear from anyone else experiencing this too.