Wellness Indonesia Counseling and Education Center

06/01/2026

These questions live quietly in many children, even when they are not spoken out loud.

Am I loved?
Am I lovable?
Am I safe?
Do you still love me when I mess up?

Children do not ask these with words. They ask through their behavior, their tears, their anger, and their need for reassurance.

What they need most is not perfection.
They need consistency, repair, and the steady message:
“You are loved. Even when you struggle. Even when you fail. Even when you are learning.”

That message becomes the foundation for confidence, emotional safety, and healthy relationships later in life.

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Your inner child carries core emotional needs formed early in life.
These needs do not disappear with age. When they were unmet or inconsistent, we adapted to cope.

Those adaptations can show up in adulthood as people-pleasing, emotional avoidance, anxiety, or difficulty trusting. They are not flaws. They were survival responses.

Healing does not mean blaming the past.
It means recognizing what was missing and learning to meet those needs now with awareness, compassion, and healthy support.