
03/03/2023
Challenging Your Thoughts
Thoughts we can experience can have an extremely negative effect on our wellbeing. Some thoughts we have can bring on anxious feelings and emotions which in turn cause us to ruminate over these thoughts, disallowing us to carry out our daily functions and engage positively with the world around us. Challenging these thoughts is important in order to move past them and gain a more positive, serving perspective.
Going through the following headings whilst experiencing Negative Thoughts can be a useful resource.
1. Naming the Situation
What happened? Who with? When?
2. Identifying Emotions/ Feelings
What emotion am I experiencing? How intense is it?
3. Noticing Bodily sensations
What do I notice physically, in my body?
4. Examining the Negative Thoughts and Images
What am I thinking? What is going through my mind? What do the negative thoughts/ images/ memories mean to me?
5. Considering an Alternative, more Balanced Perspective
Stop and Take a Breath. Are these thoughts I'm experiencing true or fact? What's actually happening right NOW? What would somebody else say about this situation? What would I say to a friend about this situation?Is my reaction in proportion to the actual event?
6. What's the best response?
What could I do that is most helpful to me right now? What would be more effective?