28/12/2025
As we prepare for 'out with the old, in with the new' on 31st December I'd like to share this...
Over the last decade in counselling, I have spent much time supporting people whose lives appear as though they stand in front of fallen bridges, searching for answers, looking at the pieces of their lives, relationships and within themselves, wondering if I can help them.... try and 'fix' the bridge.
As we journey together and progress through counselling sessions, it is an absolute honour to help clients grow, and day by day to commit to themselves and look forward.
Counselling can help clients learn that they are not responsible for things they didn't break.....to realise it is not their job to fix what someone else chose to destroy and walk away from.
Counselling can help them see they do not have to carry all the pain or guilt for something they didn't cause - they can choose not to chase people who chose to leave, choose to release burdens of blame and shame for things that were never in their hands.
Counselling helps build self worth, self belief and an understanding that a bridge between people only works if both people want to keep it standing.
Rebuilding anything damaged requires people who care, who don't give up when things get heavy, and respect it takes effort if a bridge falls.
To hold their experiencing within the safety of confidentiality, sharing space and time together and to keep showing up with open hands and a willing heart is a joy. To help another human being be true to themselves and make life changing decisions for their mental health and emotional wellbeing. To help another human being see they
no longer need rebuild a bridge that they didn't burn. They don't need to return to places where they doubted and to questioned their worth. They don't have to keep pouring themselves into cups that only leave them drained, or fight for people who never fought for them.
Counselling helps clients to let go.... To embrace a new way of life acknowledging the importance and wisdom of letting go.
I'm humbled by those who chose me to hear their hurt, and help to heal. Thankyou to every one for your likes, shares and support. I/North Coast Counselling appreciate and am thankful for your time.
Wishing you all a peaceful and gentle slide into 2026.