
06/06/2025
5 things I learned from 22-28 that I wish I knew from 16-21
1. Pursuing a career in something you’re passionate about is not ‘risk taking’. Everyone can have opinions on what you should do or to get a ‘stable’ job, but at the end of the day it is you who has to live your life on a daily basis.
Chasing a dream is going to leave you more fulfilled than just trying to find the most secure high income job.
2. It is important to realise who you are outside of sport. GAA is the biggest part of my fitness journey and sporting life like many of you, but it shouldn’t be your whole life.
Every decision I made in my younger years was decided by football matches, football training and completions. As important as it is you still need to put as much energy into your family, relationships and other interests (travel, concerts etc)
3. Stop putting all my focus on trying to build muscle. As a severely skinny player my whole life was consumed on trying to get bigger and yes it is important but I neglected the athlete I already was. I was a fit and skilful player who spent too much time focusing on bigger chest and arms and forgot about the skill work, the speed work and the actual game of football.
You need to be able to do it all, not just be a big athlete.
4. At the end of the day it’s not that serious. We all have our own crosses to bear, lives to live so dont let other peoples opinions navigate your life. Start that business you want, or follow that career you have always dreamed about.
5. Don’t be afraid of change. I never wanted things to be different. I was comfortable with where I was and didn’t want to risk it, but it also wasn’t fulfilling. If you have people around you who support you then who cares about the rest.
For anyone in their late teens and early twenties I promise you that someone else feels the same as you do now. So don’t stress it
We are all still winging it
Once you give it your best, then that is enough.