13/07/2025
Because it's Sunday, I'd like to do a different post today and tell you a few things about me and the why of my functional approach ☺️.
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I'm the daughter of two brilliant teachers, my mom was a teacher of Romanian language & literature at the best highschool in Cluj, and my father was the head of the marketing department at the University of Economic Sciences, PhD coordinator and one of the first winners of the Fulbright grant for professionals.
Who our parents are might not be relevant for everyone, it's usually not, but it's very relevant for me. I was educated not only to appreciate the patient skill of studying, but also to develop the not-so-common critical thinking which is often frowned upon.
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Not sure if it was because I grew up seeing teachers first and foremost as human beings, but I've never respected my teachers simply because they were teachers. It was the quality of their knowledge and skills and not their label & title that got my admiration and my openness to learn from them. This made me an unruly teen, I still remember - barely 14 years old - getting up from the back of the class and loudly contradicting my teacher of Romanian who struggled to understand and thus explain the difference between a subject clause and a relative clause. I would correct him, he would tell me to keep quiet and sit down as he was right, and I would come back the next day with the Academy's Book of Grammar and Punctuation to prove to him I was right and he was wrong 🙂.
This didn't change much the following years, I just got a bit smoother, luckily the ratio of bad teachers vs good teachers improved greatly. And I've definitely known a few: I spent 4 years studying for my first degree and 5 years studying for my second degree and my masters. I was the student of or won scholarships to 4 different universities on different continents: Babes-Bolyai in Cluj, University of Padua in Italy, University of New South Wales in Australia, and Boston University in the US. The Australian scholarship was the only one available for my entire university, thousands of students. And I won it. Twice in two consecutive years. I probably am, to this day, more than 20 years later, the only Romanian non-resident to ever study at an Australian university. They were also the ones to remind me, once again, just how important critical thinking is.
Just to make things clear, I'm not a nepo baby, quite the opposite, everything I had achieved was through a high work ethic and very hard work, I had been a working student all throughout my scholar years while also being a brilliant student.
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That's why it's not at all surprising that I got sick and met, for the first time as a chronic patient, another type of professional: the doctors.
I wasn't there to question their work, God forbid I wasn't there to do their work, all I wanted was for them to help me heal so that I could continue doing what I loved and what I had dedicated my life thus far to. I wanted to put my entire trust in their work, just like I had done in my good teachers.
And yet, they failed. Not once, not twice, not three times. They failed even if they were also university teachers, they failed even if they were the director of a hospital, they failed even if they were Romanian or Italian or American. They failed and I continued being medicated for 8 long years just to keep my symptoms under control.
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So what was I to do? Just suck it up and take that medication till I died? I started first reading and then studying medicine to understand what was happening with my body and to hopefully try and fix it myself. And in the process I found out there's an entire medical world, outside of "a pill for every ill", a medical approach that looks for and treats the underlying cause. So logical, so simple and yet so rare! A medical approach that addresses the root cause instead of the symptoms. So obvious!
If you have a light bulb blinking in your car telling you you're low on petrol, you go ahead and put some petrol in your car, right? You don't take a piece of cloth and cover that light so you don't see it blinking anymore. You fix the problem, not cover it up till it's too late. And yet, what we don't do to cars, we do to humans.🤯
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Did I end up getting another university degree in medicine? No, I didn't see the point. I did not care about the label if that meant just learning which pill to give for which supposed diagnosis. And yet, 90% of my colleagues are doctors and ALL of my mentors & teachers are doctors too. I have the utmost admiration for those doctors who, after completing a conventional education, realised its limits in addressing chronic diseases and continued to train in the integrative, functional approach. I have friends doctors and I have doctors who love or like all of my posts on social media and whose work I appreciate in return. Just like I have doctors who have asked for my advice or who have been my clients or sent their family members to me as clients.
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On the other hand, I haven't chosen the easy way into the medical world just to "influence" people, there was nothing easy about this choice considering all I had to sacrifice from my previous career, the mere thought is ludicrous. If anything, I'm barely present online, I preferred to spend the last 11 years studying and researching rather than aggressively selling my services.
And, again, just to make things clear, every single medical course I've done and got certified for, and I've done loads in these 11 years, has been carefully chosen - as was its teacher - and studied out of deep interest: not for the grades, not just to pass the exam and forget about it, but to understand.
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I don't think I'm anyone's first therapist choice: my services are expensive, the functional testing I provide is even more expensive, I'm not covered by insurance, and yet I have a neverending waiting list and people are asking for my help daily. I guess I must be doing something right, outside of social media, for this to happen.
So I'm just thinking, functionally: instead of attacking the end result, i.e. my own professional figure, and calling it names, why don't we fix the underlying cause, the very one which would make my role redundant and completely unnecessary? 🤔
And yes, that would be the conventional approach to chronic health issues.
I'm not holding my breath.
P.s. here's, for the algorithm, just an old photo of me the day I turned 30 and with already a heart disease diagnosis and having already taken a daily medication for the past 3 years.