
29/06/2025
The questions we often ask ourselves - what if I fail? what if they’re mad at me? what if they don't like me?
It’s easy to see our anxious mind as an enemy we have to fight. But what if we tried to see it differently? Our brain’s primary job is to keep us safe, and it generates these worries because it’s trying to protect us from pain or danger.
So when those “what if’s” start to crowd in, try this gentle practice. Instead of fighting the thought, acknowledge it with compassion. Silently say, “Thank you, mind, for trying so hard to protect me. I see you’re worried.” This simple act of gratitude can diffuse the thought’s power. Then, gently guide your focus back to the present. Notice the feeling of your feet on the floor or the chair beneath you. Remind yourself: “You are safe right here, right now.” You don’t have to believe the stories your mind tells.