04/01/2026
We're often taught we have to choose.
Be strong or soft.
Independent or in need.
Capable or human.
But healing doesn't work in either/or.
The body doesn't, either.
Strength can hold hands with tenderness.
Leadership can walk with grief.
Boundaries can honor kindness.
Needing support doesn't cancel self-trust.
For so many women I work with - and for myself - healing is less about becoming someone different and more about letting what's within you coexist.
Needing rest, guidance, or connection? It doesn't make you less. It makes you real. It makes you whole.
If these words land, let them settle. No need to choose one version of you.
Both belong.
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