05/05/2026
I have one of those jobs where, the moment someone finds out what you do, they tell you more about themselves than they’d normally share with someone they’ve just met.
Last month at a friend’s wedding, someone leaned in with a question, very much in the “asking for a friend” tone.
It’s never for a friend.
“Is sourdough actually better for you than normal bread? Trying to figure out if that’s what’s causing my bloating…”
In thirteen years, I’ve learned not to take these questions at face value. The presenting question is rarely the real one. The bloating is usually the latest in a longer list, low energy that’s been written off as a hectic schedule, half a stone that won’t shift no matter what they try, sleep that hasn’t been good for months.
They bring up the bread because it’s specific. Manageable. A problem with a possible answer.
But the question underneath it is almost always the same: I’ve been careful. I’ve been trying. I’ve cut things out, read everything I can find, and nothing is shifting. Is this just how I feel now?
Nobody says it that way out loud. Partly because it sounds too vague. Partly because saying it plainly means admitting something they’ve been quietly sitting with, that they’ve put in real effort, over real time, and they’re still not well.
You can only search for what you already suspect. And at some point, that stops being enough.
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