14/04/2026
- Over-identification ~
Lately this topic has been a huge one for me. While in India, I had a strong realisation how much I have been attaching myself to various identities. First, the artist, the dancer, then the Buddhist, the yogi, the yoga teacher, the philosopher and so on.
I recognised how strongly this over-identification affects me - essentially whatever I turned to for answers and support at some stage started to feel like a prison due to the over-identification.
While in the ashram in the south of India last month, I sat with myself, with my writing, with the plants, with the sun each day for several hours just being in my own company. It was not easy. So many should’s and shouldn’ts came to the surface. ‘You should be doing more yoga, you are in India, you shouldn’t be feeling this and that’
In spite of all the things I explored all those years - here I am with all these unconstructive thoughts.
I realised how much I can cling to something that offers me answers.
As a child I felt lost and confused so I sought answers through art, philosophy, movement.
I did find the answers. Many of them. But in the process I also created over-identification with the practices and tools I encountered. I understand why. They bring me safety and comfort. They provide what I was seeking.
However, there is a moment where this identification becomes unsustainable - it creates a self-imposed prison. And this was the biggest insight during my time in India.
It isn’t about what I do or what I believe in when it comes to the practices and philosophies I root my being in. I strongly believe in them and know how powerful they are. They bring me back to my essence in so many ways.
Instead, I am talking here about the story I have been telling myself about how I need to be when I do root my being in these practices/frameworks.
I realise this is a deep share but somehow it feels relevant. I feel that some things are not spoken about yet they affect all of us.
So this is my reflection and my musings for you today.
I choose to show up as me, an ordinary human being.
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Anna
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