08/01/2026
You’re NOT stuck in your career.
You’re operating inside a definition of success you never consciously chose, and it’s quietly breaking you.
Most high-performers didn’t opt into a “career first, always” model.
They inherited it early, performed extremely well inside it, and were rewarded for committing to it.
Over time, that definition hardens.
Availability becomes commitment.
Sacrifice is expected.
Anything outside that frame gets quietly misread.
So when friction shows up, and by friction I mean REAL LIFE it’s easy to misdiagnose yourself.
You tell yourself you’ve lost drive. That you should be more grateful, that something is wrong with YOU…
But there is nothing wrong with you for wanting to have a life and a career!!
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What you are experiencing is a disconnection between the way work is designed, how careers are performed and the life that you want & deserve.
You are ambitious. You are capable.
But the system only recognises one narrow expression of success, one that ask you to work as if you don’t have a life and live life as if you don’t work and that really narrow version no longer fits how you want to live or lead.
And while a lot of advice at this time of year tells you to lean in...
Career psychology explains why the current model keeps pulling you back into misalignment, and then uses evidence based research to support you as you make deliberate strategic decisions to transform your career and leadership identity so that it works with your life, not against it…
Which part of this landed for you?
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