Aidan Caffrey Mental Health Therapy

Aidan Caffrey Mental Health Therapy I offer help in managing issues such as anxiety, stress, depression, panic attacks, fears and phobias. Also with weight management and to stop smoking.

20/01/2020

STOP SMOKING FOR LIFE

Chances are you’ve already tried a variety of ways to stop smoking, but you’re still struggling. Why is this? Well, like most smokers you almost certainly have much more of a psychological dependence on smoking than a physical one. Over time, the psychological habits relating to smoking become thoroughly ingrained at a subconscious level. Smoking cessation products such as pills, patches and gum can provide relief from the physical side-effects of ni****ne withdrawal, but they do not address the psychological issues that prevent or discourage people from quitting. To stop smoking for good you need to develop beliefs that will enable you to see yourself as a non-smoker. This is why hypnosis is the ideal tool to help you become a true non-smoker once and for all. Hypnosis opens the door to lasting change so that you can begin to think, feel and act like a true non-smoker. Of course, hypnosis is not magic and everyone responds differently. It should also be noted that when it comes to hypnotherapy, it’s the therapy part of the equation that really counts.

Stop smoking now for €149. (free backup if you go back smoking up to one year after session.)

Aidan Caffrey. ADCHP, MICHP
Hypno-Psychotherapist.
Phone: 0876594146 for appointment.

As I stood in my garden this morning and the mist rolled in around me, I thought, yes, this time of year can be rather d...
28/02/2019

As I stood in my garden this morning and the mist rolled in around me, I thought, yes, this time of year can be rather dark and gloomy, somewhat devoid of light and colour. At times our mood can reflect this, so it is important that we have something to look forward to - to give us hope.
Now anything we plant has the potential to grow given the right conditions. When we sow seeds and cover them with soil, at first nothing appears to happen, but there can be a very strong, positive feeling that something will grow. Now that may take a short time, or perhaps what seems like a little longer, but you can certainly look forward to with interest, that the seeds that you planted are going to provide something very valuable.
With Hypnotherapy we can help to plant those seeds in a flourishing part of your own mind where you can nurture them and watch them grow.
One picture is of my garden as it is now. The other is of how it was last summer and how I look forward to it being this summer – or maybe even better!

Keeping New year resolutions   2019.Well I guess a lot of you will have begun this month with new year resolutions, maki...
14/01/2019

Keeping New year resolutions 2019.
Well I guess a lot of you will have begun this month with new year resolutions, making plans to make things better this year, to learn from past mistakes and to do what you want to do, what you need to do, to make positive changes in your life. Perhaps your goal is to stop smoking or drinking or maybe to manage your weight and get fitter and healthier or overall to feel happier in yourself, more in control. Whatever your objectives are, some of you will still be on track and some of you will be struggling.
Even with the best of intentions, it can be difficult to break old patterns and to form new ones, and we can use whatever help we can get.
For me, that help was Hypnotherapy, and it has helped countless others also.
While Hypnotherapy is not a cure-all, it can provide that kick start that gets you on track and then the motivation to keep going until you form a new habit, a new pattern.
All hypnosis is self-hypnosis, therefore it is just tapping into a strength, an ability that we all have – the ability to Dream.
So, to make it a little easier for those of you that want to continue making positive changes.
I am offering €20 discount on your first hypnotherapy session until the end of January 2019 when you quote “positive change”
Call 0876594146 to make an appointment.
Kind regards,
Aidan.

Well, it’s that time of year again. Time to make New Year’s resolutions, to try and play our part in making positive cha...
31/12/2018

Well, it’s that time of year again. Time to make New Year’s resolutions, to try and play our part in making positive changes in ourselves by recognising the mistakes we have made in the past and to learn from it rather than just hope that all will be well in the world.
I often joke that my New Year’s resolution is to stop making New Year’s resolutions. And, of course at times we don’t even try to make them for fear of failure, but it is important to try and to keep trying, adjusting as we go along, as this is how we learn.
Bearing this in mind, my New Year’s resolution for 2019 is to keep reminding myself that I always have a choice. I can allow my mind to control me or I can control my mind, and it really can be that simple, not easy but simple. So often we overcomplicate things, over analyse, overthink, where in fact, it is the opposite we need to do.
So, for 2019 and every year that you have on this earth, don’t let fear of failure to be a reason not to try. As babies, when we are learning to wall, to talk, we make many mistakes, we fall many times but on an intrinsic level, we know it’s important to keep going, and so we do.
May we all take this opportunity to learn and make 2019 a wonderful year where we can feel proud of ourselves for trying our best and that is all any of us can do.
And if you need help with any of this, please feel free to give me a call on 0876594146.

Happy New Year,
Aidan.

24/12/2018

While I want to take this opportunity to wish you a Happy Christmas, sadly it is not a time of year that is happy for everyone. For some, Christmas can be a time of sadness, loneliness and loss, for so many reasons.If my being available to take a call or text during this time can help in any small way, then please feel free to contact me on 0876594146. Warm wishes, Aidan.

02/12/2018

Reflection!

02/12/2018

This is a book review I did as part of my CPD.
It's well worth a read. Or of course you could just read my review.
Title: The Stress Test.
Author: Ian Robertson. (Professor of Psychology in Trinity)
Publisher: Bloomsbury.
Year of publication: 2016
Number of pages: 222
This book is written in a very accessible way with the authors sense of humour coming through what is otherwise serious subject matter.
Essentially the book examines the premise that what doesn’t kill us makes us stronger. This idea was originally posited by Nietzsche. Robertson asks why it is that some people can deal with stress, while others collapse under the weight.
Robertson uses his personal experience as a Clinical Psychologist and later studies as a neuroscientist to explain how we can interpret stress in a positive way. Not all stress is bad, and the distinction is made between useful stress (eustress) and unhelpful stress (distress)
Robertson’s eureka moment came while reading a study published in early 1984 that showed that contrary to previously accepted belief, the adult brain is not fixed but in fact malleable and changed by experience. Since this discovery there has been an avalanche of research in the field. Neuroscience research is now showing us that the brain is constantly changing, regardless of our age, which effectively means that we can rewire our brains. How our brain is wired is dictated by our life’s experiences, or to be precise our interpretation of our life’s experiences. Research in 1990 showed that while the basic structure of genes can’t be changed by external events, the way they work can be changed. This showed that environment and experiences can turn on and turn off genes’ activity. At this point Robertson realised the importance of challenging previously accepted beliefs, and changed from being a practising clinical psychologist to becoming a research neuroscientist.
Robertson realises that his fixed-brain thinking very much limited his ability to achieve desired results with his early patients, with his own fatalism no doubt at times influencing others. Nietzsche’s maxim recognizes in a philosophical sense the human ability to shape our own destiny. With this in mind Robertson moved forward with his research, trying to comprehend the communications of the mind and the brain in order to determine how we can use stress to our advantage. His research shows that by choosing how we interpret our body’s stress response we can control how we feel. If for example we take two people on a roller-coaster, same reaction (muscles tensing, hearth racing, rapid breathing etc.) different interpretation - one as excitement and the other fear. One vows never to go on again (fear) the other can’t wait to repeat the experience (excitement) The more we choose to think in a particular way, the more the neurons strengthen their connections. As in the neuroscience mantra “cells that fire together wire together”. In other words the more you do something, the more likely it is that you will repeat it in the future.
Repeating rewires the brain, which in turn forms new habits. Therefore it is so important that what we say to ourselves, and the language we use is positive and not negative. As this will define our beliefs and therefore, ultimately how we feel.
Robertson clearly understands the importance of presenting information in an accessible manner that engages the reader/ listener. He achieves this very well in “the stress test” by incorporating his own work life experiences with anecdotes and scientific research an empirical evidence.

As with any book I read, I try to take something positive from it, something I can use.
I have found that there is always something I can learn or relearn in any situation, with any experience. With “The stress test” the overall message is that we can learn to deal with stress, and even use it to our benefit. We no longer need to accept stress as something external and outside our control. By changing how we think about an external event/situation/person, we ultimately change how we feel.
Through reading this book I have become yet more self aware and now have a better insight into what is going on with my own thoughts, feelings, behaviour and beliefs. This helps me gain a better understanding of my tipping point and how to achieve that “sweet spot”. This of course helps me become a better Therapist. When I am better able to deal with my own stress, I am in a better place to help others. Also I can more readily explain the process of overcoming anxiety and dealing with stress, when I have used the tools myself.
As a therapist I incorporate everything that I learn regarding mental health and wellness into my sessions. I am also constantly learning from my clients. I feel that if I ever get to a point, that I don’t think that I need to learn any more, well then that will be the time to stop practising as a Therapist. I realised from reading “The Stress Test” that I can help my clients best, leading by example, using the tools myself. I have to believe in the techniques myself, if I am to expect my clients to do so.

02/12/2018

Another way of looking at it! What a beautiful morning.

02/12/2018

I regularly stop for a mindful moment or two at lough Sillan, on my way to work at Kathleen Ward's Health Clinic. While the lake remains the same, there is always something new to see. The photo I took reminds me of the Rorschach psychological test.
What do you see? I used a filter with this, as one way or another we all view life through our own filters.

22/11/2018

Cooking therapy.

15/11/2018

Part 2 to follow...

06/11/2018

Let's talk about stress!

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Monday 10am - 3pm
Tuesday 11am - 9pm
Wednesday 11am - 9pm
Thursday 10am - 3pm
Friday 9:30am - 8pm

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