21/10/2025
As we enter the depths of autumn, and say goodbye to daylight savings time this weekend, let us treat it as a moment to shift the questions we ask ourselves when feeling stuck.
How do I stop feeling this? This assumes feelings are problems to be eliminated rather than signals to be understood.
We ask our loved ones can you just tell me what to do? But never wonder why do I need the other to know for me? Asking others to fix the problem seems the easier option, but it never really fixes the core issue.
When will I finally move on? Instead of, what keeps me bound to what hurt me?
Why can’t I just let it go? But let us consider what are we looking to let go of, really?
Why do I always overthink? When the real question is what terror makes the mind work overtime to stay safe?
We ask, how long will this take? But the real question is what am I avoiding talking about?
We ask, when will I feel enough? We might need to listen for whose gaze am I still trying to please?
We ask why can’t I be happy with what I have? Whereas the hunger is psychic, not material.
Some questions circle around the solutions. The right questions open the wound, for tending and inquiry. Let this be your invitation to reframe, and reconsider your answers.
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