
04/04/2023
Kintsugi, rooted in Japanese philosophies and world views, is the process of repairing broken ceramics with gold lacquer. This art embodies "mottainai", regret over waste, and "wabi-sabi", celebrating and finding beauty in imperfections. With the pottery cracks highlighted instead of hidden, this fracture is now a beautiful part of the piece’s history and makes it unique. The original piece is reborn for future use. In this way, the art of kintsugi serves as a powerful metaphor for life.
In just one piece of pottery, kintsugi teaches us about accepting fragility, building strength and resilience and taking pride in the imperfect.
Things can and do fall apart. Of course, we know that uninvited challenges and mistakes are how we grow, learn, and change, but that truth still doesn’t make them any easier.
While we tend to see others’ struggles and vulnerability with compassion, grace, and even admiration, we have a much harder time allowing and accepting our own in the same way. And when our lives are turned upside-down by difficult changes, turmoil, loss, and challenges, it’s often not easy to adjust and accept them.
Life events like the passing of a loved one, a serious health diagnosis, or moving from a family home that no longer fits health needs can all bring up feelings of loss, grief, and fear. But we actually have things that serve as our “lacquer” to hold us together. Our sense of purpose, social connections, support networks and healthy stress management can help us build resilience, that ability to adapt to and recover from adversity.