Caoine Counselling and Psychotherapy

Caoine Counselling and Psychotherapy Caoine Psychotherapy offers a calm and comforting non-clinical safe space for women. A safe and brave space to talk about grief and loss.

Based in Arigna Co Roscommon.

🌿Saturday Drop-In Clinic-  a spot has become available 🌿Busy week? Juggling kids, activities, work and everything in bet...
21/03/2026

🌿Saturday Drop-In Clinic- a spot has become available 🌿

Busy week? Juggling kids, activities, work and everything in between?

Our Saturday morning clinic (10am–1pm) is perfect for busy mums who just can’t squeeze in time during the week. Whether you need a quick check-in,an hour away from running the roads or a female focused mental health NCT - this is your chance to prioritise you, grab a cuppa, look in to the fire - and press pause.

✹ 2 appointments available
✹ Convenient weekend hours
✹ Quick, supportive, and stress-free
📅 This Saturday | 10am–1pm
📍 Drop-in clinic (advance booking recommended)








G R I E FG R E N A D E SHow does your heart map your grief?I love doing this exercise with clients ‘Cartography of Grief...
18/03/2026

G R I E F
G R E N A D E S

How does your heart map your grief?

I love doing this exercise with clients ‘Cartography of Grief’.

When language limits our experience and we find it difficult to put words to what we are experiencing this is a great creative tool by Megan Devine to help aid the process.

It gets everything out of your head (+ heart)
Down on paper and begins to put language to
The biology of our experience

How Does This Map Compare to Your Own Mental Map of Your Grief?
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‘’Let me tell you that I love you and that I think about you all the time, Caledonia you’re calling me, now I’m going ho...
16/03/2026

‘’Let me tell you that I love you and that I think about you all the time, Caledonia you’re calling me, now I’m going home’’

This was the first song I learned. From an old dusty cassette tape self titled ‘Dolores Keane’ in 1988 and later again on the 1992 ‘Woman’s Heart’ album. Memories of it being played in the background at home while watching women washing, cleaning, mending, minding children heading in to their shift in the hospital.

Standing steward, over as Jess Buckley said in her now infamous Oscar quote ‘The Chaos of a Mothers Heart’.

It has travelled with me over the years and with every season and life transition. The lyrics continue to evoke poignancy and power.

Go lonraĂ­ solas na bhFlaitheas ort

Safe Home Dolores.

13/03/2026

S T A T E
O F
W O M E N

To the women, You are a container for everything you have overcome ~ survived~ lost-celebrated~ grieved-achieved~ endured. Happy Mothers Day Weekend to the women who nourish us, champion us, see us and support us

‘Primum non Nocere’Well done to these brave doctors for speaking out.
03/03/2026

‘Primum non Nocere’

Well done to these brave doctors for speaking out.

02/03/2026

During Seachtain na Gaeilge, we highlight Irish blessings that can bring comfort in times of loss.

Here are some beautiful blessings you can use to honour a loved one or bring comfort to someone grieving:

‱ Go lonraí solas na bhFlaitheas ort - May the light of Heaven shine upon you

‱ I suaimhneas na sĂ­oraĂ­ochta go raibh tĂș - May you be in the peace of eternity

‱ Go dtuga Dia sólás daoibh - May God give you comfort

Including an Irish blessing in a funeral service, eulogy, sympathy card, or even in personal reflection is a beautiful way to honour heritage while offering words of comfort

Learn more about these Irish blessings and their meanings.
Read the article on RIP.ie via the link in the comments.

O R D A I N - A R YW O M E NI am grateful for the lens of Elizabeth SchĂŒssler Florenza’s work, a solid theological frame...
01/03/2026

O R D A I N - A R Y
W O M E N

I am grateful for the lens of Elizabeth SchĂŒssler Florenza’s work, a solid theological framework that asks: Where are the women in scripture?

How does the experience of women impact their interpretation of scripture? How do women experience God and what can all of us learn from that?”

Also, Emily Watson interpretation of Homer’s ‘Odyessy. Grateful.

Elisabeth SchĂŒssler Fiorenza has spent her life doing something women have been warned against for centuries: asking hard questions about authority, tradition, and who gets to speak for God.

Her work exposed a truth many women sensed but had never been shown in academic language: scripture itself is not inherently patriarchal, but it has been read, translated, taught, and enforced through patriarchal power. Instead of discarding religion, she insisted on interrogating it. She asked who was missing from the text, whose voices were silenced, and how women’s leadership in early Christianity had been systematically erased.

Her landmark book In Memory of Her did exactly what its title promised. It recovered women as historical key actors in the Jesus movement and not footnotes or moral metaphors.

Harvard Divinity School, 1980s: Elisabeth SchĂŒssler Fiorenza stands before a classroom of future ministers, priests, and scholars and asks a question that makes many feel deeply uncomfortable: 'Where are the women? Why were they silenced?'

Not 'Where might women fit into biblical interpretation?' or 'How can we now make women feel included in male‑centred theology?' Instead her question asks, 'Where are the women who actually were there and were part of the Jesus movement in the earliest Christian communities? Why were the women of early Christianity erased by male translators, commentators, and church authorities who decided what mattered and what did not?'

This was not a rhetorical flourish. It was a research agenda that would change how we understand Christian origins. But before she could transform the field, Elisabeth had to survive as a woman in a male dominated discipline that did not want her.

Raised in Germany and educated in Catholic theology at a time when women were largely excluded from serious biblical scholarship, Fiorenza entered a field shaped almost entirely by men. She refused to accept male interpretations as neutral or inevitable.

She grew up Catholic in a culture where women’s religious roles were narrowly defined: nun, wife, mother and not theologian, not biblical scholar, certainly not a critic of received interpretations.

In the 1960s, she pursued a doctorate in Catholic theology at the University of WĂŒrzburg, an environment designed to train men for priesthood and church leadership.

Women were steered toward 'supporting' roles in religious education or pastoral work. Elisabeth wanted to study scripture itself meaning its texts, history, and theology.

She met professors who doubted women’s intellectual capacity for serious theology and an academic culture that treated male perspectives as universal while dismissing women’s questions as marginal 'special interests.'

She completed her doctorate anyway and more radically, refused to stop asking hard questions once she had the credentials.

After moving to the United States, marrying fellow scholar Francis SchĂŒssler Fiorenza, and beginning to teach biblical studies, she could have settled into safe, conventional scholarship with a few footnotes on 'women’s roles.'

Instead, she challenged the entire framework. Traditional biblical studies prided itself on being objective and neutral. But Elisabeth asked: Objective according to whom? Neutral from whose standpoint? Scholarship was being done almost entirely by men, in institutions that excluded women from leadership, using interpretive frameworks built by male theologians and applied in churches that denied women authority and then presented as 'unbiased' truth.

Her decisive move was to refuse the idea that the Bible itself is inherently patriarchal. While some feminists rejected religion altogether and others accepted patriarchal readings while pleading for gentler applications, Elisabeth took a third path. She challenged the interpretations. What if women were not absent from early Christianity but erased from the record? What if texts had been read in ways that served men consolidating power?

In 1983, she published In Memory of Her: A Feminist Theological Reconstruction of Christian Origins, taking its title from Mark 14:9, where Jesus promises that the unnamed woman who anoints him will be remembered wherever the gospel is preached. The irony that her act was preserved while her name was not became emblematic of countless women whose witness survived in fragments or silence. Elisabeth used the same historical‑critical tools male scholars relied on. She asked different questions:

- When Paul mentions Phoebe the deacon, Junia the apostle, and Prisca the teacher, why assume they were rare exceptions rather than signs of widespread women’s leadership?

- When later Church fathers insist that women be silent, are they describing timeless norms? Or were they trying to silence women who were already preaching and leading?

- When translators turned the female apostle Junia into the male 'Junias,' was this an innocent mistake or deliberate erasure?

- When some texts about women were marginalised while restrictive passages were mainstreamed, who made those decisions and what did they stand to gain?

Elisabeth argued that early Christianity included significant women leaders and that their roles were systematically minimised as patriarchal structures solidified. This was not speculative polemic. Her's is careful scholarship grounded in historical, textual, and linguistic evidence.

The backlash was fierce. Critics accused her of distorting scripture for ideological ends. They accused her of imposing modern concerns on ancient texts, undermining biblical authority, and threatening church unity. She replied, in effect: 'Meet the evidence. Do not hide behind authority when the historical record itself is at stake.'

At Harvard Divinity School, where she held a prestigious chair, she trained generations of students including both women and men to ask who holds power in the interpretive process, whose voices are amplified, and whose are suppressed.

In 1987 she was elected the first woman president of the Society of Biblical Literature. This marked a rupture in a discipline that had long treated male perspectives as universal. She introduced feminist hermeneutics not as a 'special interest' but as essential scholarship, arguing that theology without women’s experiences is not objective—it is incomplete.

From this platform she pressed the field to acknowledge that no interpretation is from nowhere. All readers stand in particular social locations. Pretending to be 'above' power dynamics only serves the status quo.

For religious women, her work opened a third way between two painful options. Either submit to patriarchal authority in order to remain within their tradition, or leave and lose community and meaning.

Elisabeth insisted they could stay and fight through using rigorous scholarship to uncover erased histories, question interpretations that harm women, and claim their own moral and intellectual authority before God. She gave women arguments to answer 'the Bible clearly says
; with 'it depends who is reading, translating, and whose interests are being protected.'

Now in her late 80s, Elisabeth SchĂŒssler Fiorenza continues to write, teach, and challenge the structures she helped expose. Her legacy includes institutional change (women are included in senior scholarly roles), methodological shifts (feminist and liberationist hermeneutics are now taken seriously), and a vastly richer picture of women in early Christianity. Perhaps most importantly, her work gave permission for religious women to trust their own insight and conscience.

For two millennia, men have largely interpreted scripture and told women what God requires of them. Elisabeth asked: What if the women were there all along, and were written out because their leadership threatened male power? By demonstrating, with evidence, that erasure rather than absence explains much of the record, she did more than advance academic debate. She helped make possible a form of faith that does not require women to disappear themselves.

What makes her work resonate deeply with women is its refusal to separate faith from power. She did not offer comfort theology or softened reform. Instead, she named domination systems directly and called for what she described as radical equality and democratic community within religion and beyond it. Her scholarship gave women permission to trust their intellect, their moral judgment, and their lived experience, even when institutions told them to submit instead.

đŸŒ»The Dandelion ProgrammeđŸŒ» is a post-vention support programme designed to walk alongside the whole family unit following...
27/02/2026

đŸŒ»The Dandelion ProgrammeđŸŒ» is a post-vention support programme designed to walk alongside the whole family unit following a su***de loss.

In the early days and months after loss, families often experience overwhelming and complex emotions — grief, shock, confusion, guilt, anger, and deep sadness.

đŸŒ»The Dandelion ProgrammeđŸŒ» provides a safe, compassionate space where these feelings can be acknowledged, understood, and gently supported.

Through guided coping skills, shared understanding, and trauma-informed support, the programme helps individuals and families:

Navigate the immediate and evolving impact of su***de bereavement
Develop healthy coping and emotional regulation skills
Strengthen communication within the family unit
Reduce isolation and foster connection
Build resilience while honouring their loss

Like the dandelion — a symbol of resilience, healing, and hope — this programme recognises that even after profound loss, families can find ways to adapt, grow, and move forward together.

đŸŒ»You are not alone. Support matters. Healing takes time — and it can begin together.



23/02/2026

BRACE
FOR
IMPACT 💙

We often remember exactly where we were when we heard someone had died by su***de.That’s because shock lives in the body before understanding reaches the mind.The grief that follows su***de loss can be complex, confusing, and deeply isolating — and much of the struggle appears long after the initial moment.This is why postvention support matters.If you are living with su***de bereavement, your reactions make sense. You don’t have to carry the aftermath alone

Le GrĂ 
Angi đŸȘ»

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LĂĄ na bPancĂłg sona daoibh! đŸ„žđŸ„ł
17/02/2026

LĂĄ na bPancĂłg sona daoibh! đŸ„žđŸ„ł

LĂĄ na bPancĂłg sona daoibh! đŸ„žđŸ„ł

NĂ­ thiteann an lĂĄ le linn Sheachtain na Gaeilge i mbliana ach bain triail as do cĂșpla focal a ĂșsĂĄid inniu agus tĂș ag ithe! 💜

G I S É L EGisùle Pelicot is the face of British Vogue this month.A woman whose story ignited fury and empathy in women ...
16/02/2026

G I S É L E

GisĂšle Pelicot is the face of British Vogue this month.

A woman whose story ignited fury and empathy in women across the globe.

In her first in-depth interview since her ex-husband, and 50 other men, were convicted of habitually drugging and ra**ng her,

Her message clear: ‘’I refuse to let shame stay, I am instead buoyed by hope.’’

Read the full interview 🔗 - - >

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