Arina Suld Psychotherapy

06/01/2026

Underneath our reactions there are emotions wanting to be seen. When there’s space to slow down and feel into them, something shifts.

EFT helps couples slow things down, listen beneath the surface and reconnect with what really matters — safety, understanding and closeness.

02/01/2026

Some thoughts at the start of a new year…

Some people feel excited about the new year. Others feel nothing at all. And for some, it carries a quiet weight — the sense that things should be different by now.

A new date doesn’t fix problems or untangle old patterns. Real change comes from getting to know yourself — understanding, healing, slowly becoming. From learning to accept yourself, nurture yourself, and extend that same kindness to others.

It’s about showing up, noticing what matters, sitting with both your strengths and your limits. About letting vulnerability and humility have a place, and gently letting go of what no longer fits.

Maybe this year isn’t about becoming someone new. Maybe it’s about being present. Honest. Gentle with yourself. And choosing, again and again, to tend to yourself. Not because it’s a new year. Just because… you matter 💛

28/12/2025

This morning’s sunrise on Knocknarea, walking Queen Maeve’s trail, felt like an intentional journey into slowing down.

Each step created space away from constant doing and into quiet reflection. In that stillness, introspection arrived gently, without effort.

Sometimes the journey itself is the space we need to listen.

24/12/2025

The holiday season often asks us to be "on" - to be joyful, to be present, and to be connected. But for many, this time of year can also feel like a spotlight on what’s missing, what’s difficult, or what’s still healing.

If you’re finding it hard to match the external noise with your internal reality, please know that’s okay. Whether you are navigating a life transition, a shift in relationship dynamics, or simply the weight of expectation, you don’t have to perform.

Take a breath. Honor the pace that feels safe for you today. Tomorrow holds the potential for new growth, but today, just being exactly as you are is enough. 🌿

21/10/2025

🌿 You Are Enough 🌿

It’s easy to be hard on ourselves - to feel like we need to do more, be more, or measure up in ways that aren’t fair. But here’s the truth: you are okay just the way you are. Right now, in this moment, you are enough.

You don’t have to prove your worth or earn love through perfection. You deserve patience, kindness, and compassion — from yourself first and foremost.

Every time you choose to be gentle with yourself, to celebrate your strengths, and to honor your feelings, you’re giving yourself the freedom to live more fully.

Take a breath. Let go of the harsh self-judgment. Remind yourself: it’s okay to be human, it’s okay to make mistakes, and it’s more than okay to simply be you 💛

29/08/2025

💭 Couples therapy isn’t about breaking up. It’s about finding your way back to each other.

I see so many couples who arrive thinking therapy means their relationship must be failing. But honestly, it’s often the opposite — it’s a sign that you both care enough to try.

Sometimes the spark feels dimmed, or conversations turn into arguments, or life’s changes make it harder to connect the way you used to. Therapy can give you the space to pause, really hear each other, and rebuild that closeness.

I work with couples of all kinds — because relationships don’t come with a manual, and none of us are taught how to “do” them perfectly. Therapy is simply a place to figure it out together.

🌿 If this resonates, I’d love if you shared it — you never know who might need to hear that they’re not alone.

12/08/2025

🌿 Find your way back to each other.

Even the strongest relationships can hit a patch - maybe it feels like you're living side by side, but not truly together.

In my latest blog post, “Couples Therapy: Rebuilding Emotional Connection in Relationships,” I dive into how Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFCT) helps couples slow down, tune in, and rediscover emotional safety and intimacy - even in the middle of conflict. EFCT is backed by over 30 years of research, and transformative change is possible when both partners feel seen, heard, and understood.

Whether you're navigating a rough patch, a life transition, or simply want to deepen your bond, this post offers hope and a path forward.

Click the link below to explore how couples therapy can anchor your connection with calm, clarity, and compassion - 🌿together ❤️

https://arinasuld.com/blog/couples-counselling-rebuilding-emotional-connection-in-relationships

Couples Therapy in Sligo - Rebuilding Emotional Connection in Relationships.

25/07/2025

🌿 When Life Feels Heavy

Some days, the weight of everything can feel overwhelming - and that’s okay.

Life doesn’t always go as planned, and sometimes just getting through the day takes all the strength we have.

What matters most is showing up for yourself, even if it’s just a tiny step forward. Healing and progress often happen quietly, beneath the surface, even when we don’t notice.

Remember to be gentle with yourself - small acts of self-care can make a difference. And if you ever feel like you need someone to talk to, I’m here to support you.

You’re not alone.

28/06/2025

🌈 Pride, Community and Being Human 🌈

Today, June 28th, marks 55 years since the first Pride march took place in New York City.

It was a bold response to the Stonewall uprising - a moment when people stood up to say: we exist, and we deserve to live freely. That march wasn’t just a celebration—it was a protest, a declaration of identity, and a call for liberation.

That spirit still matters deeply. Across the world, and even close to home, LGBTQ+ folks are facing real challenges—new laws, louder hate, and old fears dressed in new language.

But what I also see every week is something else: strength, tenderness, humour, truth. In the therapy space, I sit with people finding their way back to themselves. People who are tired of hiding. People who want to feel connected again.

I work with LGBTQAI+ clients and couples here in Sligo, and what I keep coming back to, especially during Pride, is how much strength there is in simply being ourselves. And how much hope there is when we build community, quietly and powerfully, one relationship at a time.

So this month, let’s honour all the ways we keep showing up - for ourselves, for each other. Pride is protest, yes - but it’s also joy, resilience, and deep, unapologetic love ❤︎

If you're looking for a therapist who gets it, or you know someone who might, I’m here. 🌿

A piece by Peter Tatchell: Pride is a protest - not a party.
https://www.petertatchellfoundation.org/pride-is-a-protest-not-a-partyby-peter-tatchell/

30/05/2025

Building Self-Worth: A Journey of Compassion and Connection 🌿

Self-worth isn’t about being perfect or always feeling confident. It’s about recognising - deep down - that you are enough, just as you are, even with all your struggles and imperfections.

So often, we get stuck in comparing ourselves to others, or carrying the weight of past hurts, and it chips away at how we see ourselves. But self-worth isn’t something to “earn” or prove. It’s something we gently nurture through kindness, to ourselves and from others.

It’s about learning to hold space for your feelings without judgment. Saying “no” when you need to. Surrounding yourself with people who see you, not just what you do. And choosing compassion over criticism in those quiet, tough moments inside.

This journey takes time. And it’s okay to stumble. But every small step of self-acceptance builds a stronger foundation for your mental health and your relationships with others, and most importantly, with yourself.

If you’re struggling to find your own worth, remember you’re not alone. You deserve to be seen, heard, and valued - just as you are. 🌿

25/05/2025

I’ve been sitting with a personal loss lately - a person I had the privilege to know, who’s no longer in this world.

It’s stirred something deeper in me. A quiet unfolding.

Loss comes in so many forms, doesn’t it? The people we love and lose. The relationships that end. The identities we outgrow. The dreams that shift, or never fully land.

Some losses are loud and visible. Others live quietly inside us, unnamed but deeply felt.

What I’m noticing is that each loss, no matter how different, asks something similar of us:

To let go, without losing ourselves.
To feel, without drowning.
To remember, without clinging too tightly.
And to live on, fully ... even with the ache.

I’ve been returning to realisations/practices that help me stay grounded:

🌿 The Untethered Soul by Michael A. Singer reminds me that I am not my thoughts or even my pain, but the awareness behind them.

🌿 In The Power of Now, Eckhart Tolle speaks of the present moment as the only place where true peace can be found.

🌿 Buddhist and yogic teachings offer their own quiet wisdom - that everything is in motion, and freedom comes when we stop clinging and start softening our grip.

Grief is not a linear path. There’s no quick fix.
But there is something sacred about meeting it honestly, letting it move through us, and choosing - again and again - to keep our hearts open.

If you’re moving through loss right now, I feel you.

Be kind to yourself.

We carry on, not by forgetting, but by weaving the love and the lessons into how we live from here.

With heart,
Arina

09/05/2025

🏳️‍🌈 A Safe, Affirming Space for LGBTQIA+ and GSRD Clients 🏳️‍🌈

This is a space where LGBTQIA+ clients are not just accepted - they’re understood. Whether you’re navigating gender identity, coming out, unpacking shame, exploring your relationships, or seeking to live more fully in your truth, our work together honours your story.

You are welcome here - exactly as you are.

Based in Sligo and offering online sessions across Ireland.

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