28/01/2026
Some children need the opposite before sleep:
đrunning
đracing
đcrashing into pillows
đbig movement
đheavy work
đfull-body play
That movement is what helps their system settle.
The movement is the regulation.
Trying to force a quiet, relaxed bedtime routine when a child still needs sensory input can feel like banging your head against a brick wall, not because youâre doing it wrong, but because youâre following advice that doesnât match your childâs nervous system.
For many ND children:
⨠Movement helps the body organise
⨠Proprioceptive input brings calm
⨠Regulation comes through motion, not stillness
So if your child needs to crash, climb, wrestle, roll, jump or run before bed â youâre not creating âbad habitsâ.
Youâre meeting a sensory need.
There is no one-size-fits-all bedtime.
There is only what works for your child.
And if tonight looks like movement first, calm second â thatâs not failure.
Thatâs attunement đ
đ If this sounds like your child, youâre not alone.
Save this for the nights you need the reminder, and share it with a parent who needs to hear it too.