04/12/2025
Making the shift from imperative (“Do this…”, “Come here…”, “Put that away…”) to declarative language can feel like a BIG transition, and that’s completely okay.
It’s new, it’s different, and for many of us it doesn’t come naturally at first. So please remember: you don’t have to get it perfect. Start slowly. Let yourself learn. Let it feel clumsy at the beginning. Every small step counts.
Declarative language is simply one supportive tool to help ND children feel safer, less pressured, and more connected, but it only works when it feels authentic to you. So take your time understanding the concept before using it, and let it become part of your natural communication style, not something scripted.