23/11/2025
Good Grief Project
- Explore your grief through creativity
Following from last year, I have continued to propose nature art making as a potential 'creative ritual' to support us through grieving process.
On our last session yesterday, we looked at our identity - what we recognise as who we are - and our malleability.
Through having worked with people in grief, what struck me was their dissonant feeling or even hurt by being addressed by others as "### who recently lost a daughter/ son/ wife/ husband..."
As if grief has become their identity.
Though they do understand it is not who they are, when they are repeatedly called as that, subconsciously, it influences their notion of who they are.
We explored other aspects of our malleability - how easily we are influenced - by looking at the environment, the state of people we spend time with and... the state of our microbiome! Yes, my all time favourite subject!
The world of microbiota (bacteria, virus, fungi, parasites and more) and how they influence our state are mind blowing. When we learn that we are just 10% human cells and 90% microbiota (in some studies, it is said 1% human and 99% microbiota!), a question arouse - "Who am I?" It also inspires us to think about the symbiotic relationship we have with fellow humans and all creatures on earth. And above everything else, the life itself.
Ritual is a threshold space where people in grief can safely explore the mystery of life and death. On the threshold, the door is open for you to see the both worlds.
My heartfelt gratitude goes to all the participants who joined me at this 4-day-series, and also to those participants from last year.
It was such a privilege to work from a special space, Bygone Days Storytelling House. Everyday, we were treated by big fire, tea and gentle presence of Eileen.
The project was birthed by two of the most caring and insightful people, Elizabeth Howard and Nicola Spendlove, and has been continuing to evolve by the suppot from CreativeIrl County Wexford Arts Office and Creative Waterford .
I am beyond grateful and honoured to be a part of the project which has become so close to my heart.