Diane O'Neill Counselling & Psychotherapy

18/01/2026

Choosing or changing your career path can be daunting, but help is at hand. Rita de Brún speaks with a range of expert advisors

08/01/2026

My private practice re-opens **Tuesday 20th January**

I have limited spaces available for new clients but please do contact if you need support. If I can’t help I will always put you in touch with a therapist I’d recommend who has availability.

07/01/2026

Highly recommend this is anyone is interested. 😊😊

24/12/2025

**Practice is now closed till 19th Jan 2026**

As the year draws to an end and the Christmas lights are shining bright, I reflect on the year gone past.

I feel blessed to do the work I do. Honoured to be part of healing journeys. I look back with pride on those who have crossed the threshold of my therapy room and look forward to what 2026 brings.

Wishing everyone a peaceful Christmas and a healing new year. 🎄

11/12/2025

Some children seem to manage so well at school — polite, quiet, compliant.
Then they come home and everything falls apart.

That shift isn’t manipulation.
It’s the crash that happens when a child has spent all day masking, suppressing, and holding it together.

At school they survive.
At home they release.

Our new visual explores what’s really happening beneath the surface — and why those meltdowns after school are actually signs of trust and safety, not defiance.

Explore our linked toolkits for deeper support:
Masking Toolkit – understanding the hidden effort of blending in
After-School Restraint Collapse Toolkit – practical strategies for recovery and regulation at home.
Instant electronic download with secure global checkout. at link in comments ⬇️ or via our Linktree Shop in Bio.

Save this post for when you need the reminder that 'coping' can come at a cost — and that behaviour always tells a story.

11/12/2025

When a young person has ADHD, the world can feel busy, loud, fast, and full of expectations that don’t always match how their brain works.

This series, A Child's Voice, gives space for their voice — honest, brave, and beautifully human.

It’s here to help adults pause, listen, and truly understand what life feels like on the inside.

Every child deserves to be seen beyond their behaviour.
Every child deserves support that honours how their brain is wired.
Let’s listen to their voice… and let it guide us.

See footer in visual for free download info.

11/12/2025

Some children find the school day extra hard — not because they’re being difficult, but because their executive function skills are still developing.

These skills help us organise, plan, remember instructions, manage emotions, switch tasks and cope with change. When they’re under strain, the day can feel like a marathon… and by home time, there may be after-school restraint collapse.

Children who may find executive function more challenging include those with:
ADHD
Autism
Dyspraxia / DCD
Learning Differences (e.g., dyslexia)
Anxiety or mood-based needs
Children who have experienced trauma, chronic stress, or early adversity
Children born prematurely

If your child melts the second they walk through the door, struggles to “hold it together”, or seems exhausted by the school day — this is not a behaviour problem. It’s a nervous system and executive load problem.

I’ve put together a After-School Restraint Collapse Pack, including:
A compassionate guide
Co-regulation support ideas
And an Executive Function Checklist to help you understand the “why” behind the behaviour.
Link in comments below⬇️ or in bio to download.

06/10/2025

Worrying times for our profession …

Psychotherapy bodies are warning that new minimum training standards set by the regulator will be...

24/09/2025

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Petition to CORU: Uphold Standards in Counselling and Psychotherapy

14/09/2025

10/09/2025

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23/08/2025

“The 600 plus points students got all the plaudits on the news yesterday and fair play, it took a lot of work and is well deserved 👏 However, there are some other students who won’t feature on most of our radars, but but deserve a shout out too… 👇👇👇

To the student with additional needs who maybe struggled with academic and social difficulties…well done 👏

To the student who had a physical illness and missed many classes to attend multiple appointments.. well done 👏

To the student who spent months in an in-patient unit recovering from an eating disorder, depressive/ anxiety disorder and had to catch up on lost time..well done 👏

To the student who suffered a bereavement this year and had to try study through the sadness of loss.. well done 👏

To the student who lived in a home with addiction who had to find space to study amid chaos and uncertainty.. well done 👏

To the student who had a sibling with additional needs who was called upon to help out at the cost of their own time to study… well done 👏

To the student who endured bullying, exclusion and persecution but still managed to go in day after day and try to learn… well done 👏

Students like these won’t feature on our National news stations and they won’t break any points records..but these young people have shown remarkable spirit deserve credit too…here’s hoping that the next few yrs will be a bit easier for them🤞.. well done 👏”

Dr Colman Noctor.