18/05/2026
As a child you learned:
⚡ stop talking
⚡ stop forgetting things
⚡ stop being “too much”
⚡ stop daydreaming
⚡ stop feeling everything so intensely
⚡ just try harder
So naturally your brain responded with:
✨ anxiety
✨ overcompensating
✨ people pleasing
✨ perfectionism
✨ panic productivity
✨ and pretending you definitely knew what was going on 😂
From the outside?
You looked organised enough.
Successful enough.
Functional enough.
Meanwhile internally:
🧠 forgetting why you entered rooms
🧠 emotionally buffering 24/7
🧠 surviving on caffeine and fear
🧠 one minor inconvenience away from lying face down on the floor ✨
Then midlife arrives and suddenly:
🔥 the tabs stop tabbing
🔥 the coping strategies stop coping
🔥 the masking software crashes
🔥 and now a loud fridge feels personally disrespectful ✨
Meanwhile everyone around you is saying:“It’s probably stress.”
And you are sitting there like:“No Sharon… I think the unpaid intern managing my executive functioning has finally quit.” 😂
The funniest part?
Realising neurotypical people were not actually:
✨ manually forcing themselves through every day
✨ rehearsing conversations
✨ emotionally recovering from emails
✨ or pretending to understand instructions since primary school 😂
If this feels painfully specific…there is probably a reason ❤️
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⚡ emotional regulation
⚡ executive functioning
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⚡ rejection sensitive dysphoria (RSD)
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