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Micki Lavin-Pell is dedicated to helping people create dynamic, successful relationships from the st

Micki Lavin-Pell offers Marriage Therapy and Relationship Coaching for people who want to create dynamic, healthy relationships. Micki helps people unleash their barriers so that they can create a relationship they can feel proud of. Create the relationship you want by learning what you need to know even before you find love!

11/01/2026

Sometimes, just as a connection starts to feel safe, the urge to pull back appears.
Not because something is wrong, but because closeness can activate old fears.

For some people, intimacy brings up a fear of losing independence, control, or emotional balance.
Needing space isn’t a flaw - it’s often a signal that vulnerability feels unfamiliar.

The work isn’t forcing yourself to stay or to leave.
It’s learning to notice what closeness brings up, and allowing space without disappearing. 🤍

09/01/2026

Sometimes we stay because we’re attached to what could be, not what is.
We hold onto hope, effort, and emotional investment - even when the connection no longer feels good.

Letting go isn’t a lack of strength.
It’s often harder than staying, because it asks us to face loss, uncertainty, and change.

You’re not weak for staying.
But you’re allowed to choose yourself when staying starts to cost you. 🤍

06/01/2026

Waiting can be an act of care - or an act of self-abandonment.
The difference isn’t time. It’s how you feel while you wait.

You’re allowed to want reassurance, effort, and clarity - without rushing or settling. 🤍

04/01/2026

It’s easy to label yourself as “too needy” when your needs aren’t being met.
Especially if you care, try harder, and keep adjusting.

But asking for clarity, consistency, or emotional presence isn’t asking for too much - it’s asking the right thing from the right person.

The right connection won’t make you shrink to be chosen.
It will meet you where you are. 🤍

02/01/2026

Ghosting hurts because it leaves you with no explanation, so your mind fills in the blanks.
But their silence is not a reflection of your value. It’s a reflection of their avoidance.

People ghost when they don’t know how to communicate discomfort, uncertainty, or disinterest.
It’s not about you being “too much.” It’s about them not being able to show up with honesty.

Your worth isn’t measured by who stays temporarily - but by who chooses to communicate clearly.
You deserve real closure, real clarity, and real care. 🤍

30/12/2025

An avoidant partner isn’t running from you — they’re running from the feelings closeness brings up inside them.
Their distance can be painful, but it isn’t a sign that you’re unworthy or “too much.”

The key is balance:
Give them space without abandoning your own needs.
Speak calmly, stay steady, and communicate directly.

And remember - a functional relationship depends on two people working with their patterns, not just one person compensating for them. 🤍

28/12/2025

It’s easy to mistake comfort for compatibility.
Someone can be kind, familiar, and present - and still not be the partner who truly aligns with you.

“The one” isn’t just someone you enjoy spending time with.
It’s someone whose values match yours, whose pace feels right, and whose presence supports the life you want to build.

Convenience feels easy.
Connection feels grounding.
Pay attention to who you become around them, that often tells you more than the relationship label ever could. 🤍

26/12/2025

Dating has a way of turning self-doubt up louder than usual.
Suddenly you’re questioning your words, your timing, your worth.

This isn’t because you lack confidence - it’s because dating puts you in a position of uncertainty, and uncertainty can activate old fears of not being chosen.

Your value doesn’t change based on someone’s response.
Healthy dating should support your sense of self. 🤍

24/12/2025

Loving Wisely is a proud sponsor of this initiative to help Miluim couples reconnect since the war.

23/12/2025

It’s common to panic or disconnect when someone shows real interest - especially if your history taught you that love is unpredictable or unsafe.
Your reaction isn’t a flaw. It’s your nervous system trying to protect you.
As you build trust and emotional safety, closeness can start to feel less overwhelming - and more grounding. 🤍

21/12/2025

It’s confusing when someone goes quiet without explanation.
Sometimes it’s about fear, discomfort, or mixed intentions - but often, it’s not about you.

People withdraw when they don’t know how to communicate honestly.
It hurts, because it leaves you with questions you can’t answer.

You deserve clarity, not guessing.
Silence is also an answer, just not the one you hoped for. 🤍

19/12/2025

Getting close can feel safe for a moment - until it isn’t.

Sometimes people pull away not because they’ve stopped caring, but because vulnerability feels overwhelming.
Closeness can activate old fears - of rejection, dependence, or losing control.
Their distance isn’t always about you; it’s often about what closeness brings up in them.
Healthy love means staying open long enough to talk about the discomfort, not run from it. 🤍

Address

Chizkiyahu
Jerusalem
9318224

Opening Hours

Monday	06:00 - 00:00
Tuesday	06:00 - 00:00
Wednesday	06:00 - 00:00
Thursday	06:00 - 00:00
Friday	06:00 - 00:00
Sunday	06:30 - 00:00

Website

http://www.lovingwisely.co.il/

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