11/04/2025
Every year, we tell the same story:
- Out of Egypt
- Through the Sea
- Into Freedom
But what if we turned the story inward? What if Egypt were not only a place on a map, but a place in our psyche? A state of inner captivity, of living small, afraid, stuck in old roles, old fears, old defenses?
Inside each of us lives a Pharaoh. The voice that clings to control, that resists change. And inside us, too, lives a Moses, quiet, hesitant, but holding a vision of something else. Could we allow them to be in dialogue with each other?
Then come the plagues.
Maybe not hail or frogs, but emotional chaos and painful truths. This year, we don’t have to imagine the plagues, we’re living them. As a people, we carry the pain of October 7th, the war, the losses, the fear, the deaths, and the unbearable fact that some families are still waiting for their loved ones to return. And across the border, countless families too carry unbearable grief, destruction, and despair. What are the plagues we are enduring? And what plagues might we be inflicting on others, and on ourselves? These are so many important questions we should never ignore asking.
And then we reach the sea.
That place in-between. Where the past still pulls, and the future is unclear.
The crossing of the sea is a psychological moment. A transition.
It’s not about certainty. It’s about movement. It’s about letting go of what no longer serves us, even if we don’t yet know what’s on the other side.
This Pesach, I also invite us to reflect inward on the Four Sons.
Not as four different people sitting around a table,but as four inner voices, or perhaps four levels of consciousness within us:
– THE WISE ONE, our capacity for reflection, integration, and deep understanding.
– THE CHALLENGING ONE, the shadow part that resists, provokes, or stands apart, often pointing toward places in us that need growth and acceptance.
– THE NAIVE ONE, the playful, curious voice of the inner child, open to learning, discovery, and wonder.
– And THE ONE WHO DOESN’T KNOW HOW TO ASK, the quiet part in us that hasn’t found a voice yet.
Each of them deserves a place at our inner table. Freedom begins when we stop pushing these parts away and start listening.
Hag Sameach to all. Especially to those who are in the in-between, no longer where they were, not yet where they’re going.
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