17/04/2020
Practical Questions and Recommendations to help ease these COVID days
(FYI - in Hebrew the word COVID means ‘heavy-intense’).
In addition to creating and maintaining a do-able routine, getting enough sleep, eating healthy and drinking enough (water), here are suggestions to keep in mind.
1. Who will I contact, connect with, or see how they are doing today?
Send a message, call, zoom, WhatsApp and more.
2. Can I help someone today?
Even if it's just asking how they are, sharing a joke or having a laugh together. This
can promote positive feelings, health and resilience.
3. Be more forgiving to yourself and others (a sense of humor helps).
We are all under varying degrees of stress. When under stress, people are often
more sensitive, reactive and emotional.
4. Give yourself a ‘Time Out’.
Unless the situation you are facing is truly time sensitive or dangerous, consider
giving yourself a ‘time-out’ instead of your kids (spouse or other). Take a step back
before you or it blows up. Give yourself a little break to recharge your batteries and
help you relax. By stepping away, you can often de-escalate a stressful situation
and return later with better coping skills and solutions.
5. Ask yourself “What can/should I let go of? What new ‘normal’ expectations can I adopt today?”
There aren’t that many things that ‘must’ be done at an absolute time or way.
Stop beating yourself up or others! No one is perfect. No one can control
everything. Do what you can and let go of what you can’t. Now might be the
time to see where you can allow yourself to just be ‘good enough’.
6. How can I move my body today?
Continue to move your body to maintain/increase strength and resilience. Release
tension and ‘happy’ hormones.
Go for brisk or leisurely walks, walk up and down your stairs, join a class on Zoom
or YouTube to get your body moving, do Pilates, (home-made) weights, yoga and
more!
7. In what way can I express my creativity today?
Write, paint, bake, sculpt, music, build, garden, sing, organize, joke, design and
more!
8. How can I treat / pamper myself today?
Take a long hot shower, go for a run, read a good book, watch a series, have a nice
cup of tea, do your nails… take it easy.....
9. What do I want or really need to do today? In what ways can I be flexible?
Can you cancel or move something from your To Do list to another time? From
another time to today? Could it be done a different way than you thought or
planned. Are you the only one who can do it?
10. What can I learn today or how can I activate my brain in a positive way?
Challenge yourself! Try something you’ve never done before. Hone a skill or learn a
new one. Learn a language or play a game (alone, with your spouse or your
Children). Use it or lose it!
11. What do I feel grateful for today? What hopes do I have for the future?
Many of us tend to focus on the negative., especially during trying times. Now is a
good time to stop and count your blessings. Choose hope. Focus on how you
can take advantage of the situation and see what you can do now for the future.
12. What have I always wanted to do “if only I had the time” - is that possible now?
Think about all the things you wanted to do but just didn’t have the time.
Now you just may have the time and be able to do them! Before you know it, these
days will be behind your and then again you may say to yourself ‘if only I had done it
when I had the time’. Sieze the moment and go for it!
These questions and recommendations can stimulate thinking and promote relief. They encourage us to release ourselves from our former ‘automatic’ routine and sense of confinement that we are now experiencing and reframe/adopt a new mindset and way of thinking and doing. No matter how small the step, it can be the start to a new, healthier, more positive and resilient reality.
If you found this post helpful or would like help or to learn more about this and develop greater awareness, personal strategies and methods, contact me at keterinaclaman@gmail.com.
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