09/09/2025
For many Indians, growing up comes with one rule:
You must take care of your parents.
But what happens when your dreams take you abroad? Or make you choose a different life?
For Indians living abroad, or Indians who have chosen a non-traditional life here - this is a common struggle. The excitement of moving overseas often comes with guilt. You’re building the life you dreamed of, but also asking yourself:
Am I being selfish? Did I abandon my parents?
This guilt is deeply tied to Indian culture, family expectations, and the pressure of being the “perfect child.”
This post is for every Indian who feels torn between responsibilities at home and their own aspirations. Therapy for Indians isn’t about easy answers. Ot’s about finding balance, understanding guilt, and learning what it means to care without losing yourself.
Swipe through to reflect.