UnlockLife4me

31/05/2024

One of the most important influences in terms of how our life turns out is power. We decide who has it, and as a result we either forge our own path...or we follow the path of others. Here's something to think about when it comes to making that decision for yourself:

We're all powerful, but sometimes we forget it. When that happens, we have but a single choice to make, and which path we choose, selects the life we have.

28/05/2024

Life is never a straight line. The thing is, it's the "curves" that end up defining who we are and what kind of life we have. So, if you want to actually get the life you want, there's ways that will work, and ways that won't. Let's be very clear about what *won't* work:

When something happens you don't like or seems to be against you? What do you do? Turns out, your answer will determine the life you get. Make the right choice.

27/05/2024

The bigger the job ahead of us, the more inclined we are to put it off—or avoid it all together. And there's really no bigger job I can think of than trying to unlock the life you want. Here's how to build an unstoppable "delivery pipeline" for your life by stealing a few ideas from software development:

If you think about everything required to change your life in one go, you'll never get anywhere. Do this instead.

24/05/2024

If we want to be more successful in our relationships, we need to really focus on one critical skill: empathy. Unfortunately, many people get this wrong, but after reading this post, you won't. Here's how to do it right—even, and especially, if you otherwise can't stand the other person:

Empathy is the key to better relationships. But, people confuse it with sympathy, and they don't know how to do it properly. Here's a simple trick that works.

23/05/2024

If you want to start to improve your relationships, you need to start to understand what you really want out of them. Sometimes, it's a simple transaction. But most of the time, that's not really true—even when it seems like it on the surface. Find out why here:

We make offers to others all the time, but if you want to unlock the life you want, you need to look not only at the offer, but what's behind it. Here's how.

21/05/2024

One of the most important things about the 3rd Unlock™, how you see your relationships, is a function of the 2nd Unlock™, how you see yourself. Because far too many people make a very common mistake that can ultimately, if repeated over time, screw up even the most solid and important of our relationships.

But it doesn't have to be this way, and here's why: https://unlocklife4me.com/whatever-it-isits-not-about-you/

21/05/2024

Today we're officially live with the blog! It's going to start slow, but it's going to get new updates every day. However, if you want the scoop earlier than you'll get it here, then go ahead and sign up for the daily emails. When things really get going, the delay could quite literally cost you... 😉

And to kick things off is something that I'm very passionate about when it comes to working on the way our relationships turn out. It's something people often get wrong, but you can fix it—regardless of whatever anyone else chooses to do. Here's how:

In terms of human interactions, the one thing you can't afford to get wrong is respect. And yet, it's one of the first things to decay. Here's how to fix it.

14/05/2024

Now we're getting serious. It's time to lay the groundwork for the 3 Unlocks I believe are required to achieve the life you want.

Unlock 1: understand the world
Unlock 2: understand yourself
Unlock 3: understand your relationships

This is the first video that talks about Unlock 1: understanding the world, because the fundamental choices you make there have pretty wide-reaching consequences—often in areas that you wouldn't directly relate to the choice you make.

In this video, Andrew talks about what those fundamental choices are, gives some examples, and then talks about the deeper, psychology governing your behavior based on the choice you make.

Remember, if you like the video, please share the love: like this post, subscribe to the YouTube channel, and smash the like button for the video. That way, you won't miss anything as we all move forward together.

In this video, Andrew talks about the most fundamental choice you need to make as part of the first Unlock: the way you see the world. Andrew introduces the ...

13/05/2024

More backstory. More clarity. More action.

Here's why I'm doing what I'm doing with the UnlockLife4me movement, and here's everything that's happened in the last 8, whirlwind days that's led up to this so far.

If you're feeling stuck, you don't have to stay that way. And I believe it's easier than you think to live the life you want. All it takes is to pay attention to the right things in the right order.

Most people miss one or two and then wonder why they're still struggling. But with all three well and truly sorted...
..you'll never see the world – or yourself – the same way again.

In this video, I walk you through the sequence of events from last Saturday at the Superconference through to today, the 12th of May. I share with you why I ...

11/05/2024

We're Live!

What a whirlwind week it's been pulling all this together! I really couldn't have done it without the support of everyone at last week's Superconference! It was really one of those moments that can change your life.

And that's actually the whole point of the UnlockLife4me movement. That you can accomplish whatever you want to achieve because it's already in you. You just have to recognize it and then put it to work.

I've been through a lot of crazy times in my life, and I've made a lot of mistakes. To get out of it, back on track and moving forward again, I've had to learn a lot over the last 20 years about psychology, neuroscience, influence, persuasion, cognitive science, social dynamics and human behavior.

Up until this week, I've only shared what I know about these topics as part of the work I did with my consulting clients to help them better engage with their internal customers and to build and strengthen the professional relationships that enabled them to be respected, be heard and ultimately make a difference.

However, last week I noticed something. I noticed that when I started talking about the world, the problems we face and some of my ideas on how to solve them through taking control of the way we engage and interact with those around us, these were the conversations that were most focused, engaging and beneficial for people. In fact, I had more than one person come up to me afterward and thank me for helping them—when I didn't intend to do anything but have a conversation with them, get to know them and understand who they were!

So here's my invitation to you: if you're an established professional in your career, but you find yourself struggling to achieve what you believe you're capable of, make the connections that make a difference in your personal and professional life or are simply dealing with the same set of conflicts over and over without ever making any progress towards uncovering or addressing the underlying problem...
..then why not see if what I have to say can help you unlock your life and achieve what you're truly capable of?

All it takes is one moment, one idea or one action, and everything can change in an instant. It has for me, and I believe it can for you too. But don't just take my word for it, come see for yourself at https://unlocklife4me.com.