18/03/2026
Edie Windsor (she/her) was an LGBTQ+ and women's rights activist, best known as the plaintiff in the landmark Supreme Court case which successfully overturned Section 3 of the Defense of Marriage Act.
Edie was born in Philadelphia and grew up in a Russian Jewish immigrant family. Despite the financial hardships and discrimination, Edie flourished academically, went on to study at multiple prestige institutions and joined IBM as one of their first woman computer scientists. During her 16 years at the company, she was known for her prodigious skills and as a trailblazer for women in the field.
During this time, Edie met Thea Spyer, a psychologist, and the two began dating in secret. In 1967, Thea proposed to Edie with a diamond pin rather than a ring to continue keeping their relationship discrete.
Edie eventually left IBM and increased her advocacy for LGBTQ+ rights. In particular, she used her skills to help LGBTQ+ organizations become more technological proficient and update their computer systems. At the same time, Thea's health began declining, and the two entered a domestic partnership in New York and got married in Canada. Sadly, when Thea passed away in 2009, federal law did not recognize the validity of their marriage. This court dispute became the SCOTUS case considered to be a landmark legal victory for the same-sex marriage movement.
In life, Edie was a close friend and supporter of Callen-Lorde, helping to advocate for equitable healthcare. To this end, she generously supported the opening of our Thea Spyer Center for Behavioral Health, with the goal of ensuring her late partner's legacy of caring for patients would live on. Edie was also a past recipient of the Community Health Award. Even though she passed away in 2017, her life and work continue to be celebrated by advocates at Callen-Lorde, in New York City and beyond.
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